How is marriage not a special kind of partnership? It’s not easy to find a good partner and develop understanding and trust, and it’s not easy to have to face the end of the partnership one day. So, how to do marriage partners? The first thing you need to do is to find a good partner and get a good understanding and trust.
How does a partner do?
Resource integration, network sharing, financial abundance, and stress sharing
This is what marriage is all about. Once a marriage is successful, couples not only share their financial resources, but they also blend with each other’s resources and penetrate their own circle of family and friends. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. In the marriage, the two partners integrate resources, each play their strengths, for the family common goals and future planning to work. The two actively communicate and discuss everything, so that the marriage can only be better.
What is the biggest taboo for partners?
Over-dependence, unequal payments, unequal shares, and sovereignty struggles
Some people often make the mistake of entering into a marriage and transforming the other person to their own will, or relying on them more than they should and being more calculating about what they give and what they get. The truth is that marriage cannot withstand the constant demands of one party, nor does it rely on one-sided compromise concessions. A good marriage should be a partnership, a win-win situation.
Win-win doesn’t mean all gain and no give, but in a happy relationship, sometimes losing still makes you feel like you’re winning. In a documentary studying gender differences, an elderly British couple who have been married for seventy years put it well: young people always demand too much perfection from their relationships and from their partners. There is no perfection? Actually, put up with it and it will pass. We basically have arguments every day, and arguments are inevitable, but we rarely bad-mouth each other, and can’t remember the last time we had a fight. In marriage, they sometimes lose their position, but win happiness. Sometimes let themselves lose to be momentarily strong, but won mutual respect.
Partnership is also about principles
Mutual trust, complementary strengths, balanced interests, and collaborative operations
In marriage, sometimes losing is winning and winning is losing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Sometimes the other side let you win a little, in fact, he will lose a little. You will not turn a blind eye, then, the next time you lose a little on purpose, the other side to win a little. A smart wife, will care about each other’s feelings, respect for men’s ideas; wise husband, know in some small things will give a woman, but not blindly spoiled. The big and small, know how to communicate, appropriate to speak a little principle, so do not suffer themselves, but also to take care of each other’s feelings. A good marriage is not a hot-headed, one-man show. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
Loving couples use these 6 tricks
1. Don’t complain, give more advice
Criticism is a deliberate attack on a person’s character with the intention of causing emotional pain and poking holes in the other person’s scars. Complaining, however, is a plea for the other person to change his or her behavior. If you confuse the two, you miss the opportunity to improve your relationship with your partner.
2. Don’t be too egotistical
Couples’ arguments always focus on what they are doing right, rather than on what is best to do to improve the relationship. The latter approach requires developing a more mature and humble mindset. When in conflict, ask yourself, “Is it worth putting pressure on the marital relationship just to prove that you are right?”
3. Have more buzz in the house
4. Get rid of anger before going to bed
When emotions get out of control, people do things that are counterintuitive, and say things without thinking about the consequences. If you can calm down, take deep breaths and regain your sanity, the results will be better. Of course, tough issues still have to be dealt with, but keeping a clear head and calm will be more beneficial to the marriage relationship.
Have some fun when the relationship is a little dull, such as throwing a party; it doesn’t have to be fancy or elaborate. Invite friends and family over for a barbecue to create warm and fun memories and look back.
5. Turn off your phone at dinner
Couples eat dinner and if one partner is always staring at their phone, the other will be silent. This is a selfish sign of lack of respect. Be sure to focus on your spouse while eating. Ask your TA more often, “How was your day?”
A greeting goes deep into your partner’s heart and creates a strong sense of connection. It’s a way of showing emotional support and demonstrating that you want to know what’s going on inside the other person.
6. Lower your high expectations of your partner
If you think the other person should just remember your birthday, send you flowers, and choose the perfect gift, you’ll be frustrated and upset if they forget to do so. For you, the marriage relationship is nothing more than a scorekeeping exercise. Your spouse is not a sage and cannot fully guess what you are thinking. Talk openly with each other to build a common foundation of understanding.