As the saying goes, “Marriage is the grave of love, and love without marriage has no place to die”, love and marriage have always been a common topic between couples. When from love into marriage, men in the family “cage”, the real desire or unrestrained forest meadow. So, in the end, how to restore the freedom of men? The woman should also how to “free” men?
1, private space
Many newlywed men will complain to The old days are gone! The “old days” meant having free time to do whatever you wanted to do. But once they get married, men feel like they’ve become a “yo-yo” in their wife’s hands: a little far away, they’re pulled back by the strings in her hands.
2, say what you want
“What can’t you just say?” Many men have voiced this complaint. Women love to express their ideas in circles, and even the smartest men can’t keep up with women’s brains. Especially after the conflict, women take the “ignore” attitude – do not talk, do not talk on the phone, do not eat, different rooms and so on “cold violence”. In fact, men want to deal with problems between two people in a simple way.
3, dynamic relaxation
Aside from sleep and necessary work, men always seem to like to move – there is certainly no doubt that outdoor sports such as keen ball games and hiking, and even at home, they want There is music to accompany. If you want a man to stay in peace, he will be bored to death.
4, unpretentious
Come home and take off your shoes and fling them with your feet instead of putting them in the shoe closet; be greedy in the morning and put them in the shoe closet. The first thing you need to do is to get up late in the morning and not fold the covers; brush the dishes after they are used up; and so on and so forth. Men are most afraid of being entangled in the details of life. So women with board rules only make men nervous.
5, unwilling to manage money
If a man is single when he is They don’t expect them to change when they get married. They feel that personal finance is such a hassle that they might as well put the experience into a hobby. So men hand over the financial reins of their homes to women because they are too lazy to bother.