In front of such a harsh reality, many men and women stop outside the marriage, dare not step into the minefield of marriage a step, afraid to enter the siege will bury years of sweet romance, bury the happiness of the two. When in love, the face of just two people of pure love, and marriage is simply a “game” between two families. The wedding was a big event, but in some ways for the groom and his family is a kind of “torture”, from the decoration of the new house, to organize the wedding, and then the wedding ceremony, many aspects of the male party to bear. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So, if a man is married or not, it’s not a problem with the relationship between the two, the problem is mostly from the outside world. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The man before marriage, moreover, has 8 big unknown knots, today to understand.
1. The beauty of the street does not look white not look
Every man likes beauty, whether he admits it or not, even if he knows the woman is not good for him, but the man will give a little preference to the beauty. You can’t say that men are cheap, human nature is the love of beauty, regardless of men and women, don’t care too much about your fiancé to the woman on the street more than two eyes, they are colored heart no guts, have the guts of most in jail. If you really give him a naked beauty thrown to him to hold, he will definitely be afraid. Men’s enthusiasm for beautiful women will always wane over time, and the rate of decline is bound to exceed the rate of time growth.
2. Once loved is the most precious memory
A man loses a lover, just as he loses a possession, and the deeper the love, the heavier the loss. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The more a person has a sense of responsibility, usually this kind of man in a new relationship, the dissatisfaction of the former will soon fade away. The chance reunion after separation, he gave her will be a simple smile, a cup of hot tea or a polite greeting. From past lovers, men want more affirmation, which is very important to them, because men feel that this kind of evaluation is more objective and real.
3. House – a pain for men to get married
The popularity of “Snail’s Nest” and “No room for complacency” has pushed the big problem of the house in front of the audience, and the house, too, has become a pain for men to get married.
In today’s society, people are becoming more and more utilitarian, and many girls tend to worship gold and become gold-digging women, treating marriage as a money transaction, and don’t think of marrying her without a house, car, or ticket. The high price of housing, many men in front of the marriage deterred. How many marriageable men can afford to buy a sky-high house? So, many men in order to get married, willing to risk the risk of being scolded by the side, but also to go as a gnawing old man, so that their parents to buy a house for their own marriage. The poor fathers, in order to hold the grandchildren as soon as possible, in order to the happiness of the son, the hard work of a lifetime left a penny all contribute to ……
And those family in general, no old gnawing men, can only be under the girlfriend chase marriage, stammering, is married or not married it, not their own say, but the woman The woman said it. If the woman really must be house, then only a step back! So, many people say that many women are now married not to men, but to houses, to tickets!
4. Bride price – there is no escape from marriage
There is a history that before marriage, men and women will discuss together where to hold the wedding banquet, how to hold it, how to give the wedding, how much to give and so on. The ancient belief is that a married woman is like a spilled water, that is, the in-laws, and the mother’s family’s years of hard work in raising their daughter will be measured by the bride price as a return for the mother’s years of nurturing.
Everyone knows that you have to give a bride price to get married, and everyone understands the implications, but there are many lovers who break up because of the bride price issue.
Some women’s families feel that they have spent a lot of money and material resources raising their daughters, so they will ask for a lot of money on the issue of bride price, making what was originally pure love become a sky high price, making it look like they are selling their daughters. Perhaps from the point of view of the elderly, this is indisputable, but, from the son-in-law, the two of them are free love and sincere love to get married together, not through the money to buy a daughter-in-law. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
In front of the sky-high bride price, the man will also stop, sometimes it is not that he can not afford to give, but he gives unwillingly. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
5. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law – to live in harmony with mother-in-law
The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult issue in marriage, and many loving couples are at an impasse or even end up in divorce because of mother-in-law problems.
From a man’s point of view, they all want to find a good daughter-in-law who is as filial as they are and can live in harmony with their mother-in-law. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The man also became a double-sided glue like, both sides difficult to do, both sides are not people.
Many men, before determining to get married, will try to let their girlfriends and mothers live together to see if they can live in harmony. If the girlfriend is the one who can’t accommodate his mother, many men will choose the mother over the girlfriend. In traditional Chinese thought, marriage is the order of parents, matchmakers, men want to get married must get the consent of their parents. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
6. A wife should never be a slut
There is now a saying of “three women”, i.e., housewives, housewives who go out and sluts in bed. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. But fantasy is not the same as reality, find a slut to do their own wife can not be a few willing. In bed, men have always liked to take the initiative, and occasionally give way to women, but at heart they prefer to see women moaning beneath him, because the pleasure of conquest is sometimes more important than sex itself. Women’s initiative is a stimulus for men, but men do not want women to always be very active, because the stimulus is more numb. It’s easier for men to have an orgasm physically, but it can be harder for women.
7. Premarital sex comes from physical urges
With the openness of sexuality, premarital sex is not something very special for our generation. Some people have said that men are all horny and full of that kind of thing nowadays. This “mass murder speech” is indeed due to some of the black sheep, some young people in order to get a sexual experience, not only hurt the female body also hurt the female mind. Of course, many men justify their actions by arguing that it is just a physical impulse. If the other person agrees, it’s not an assault, so why not.
8. It’s always inevitable that you’re going to have to make a scene
Men will always need to socialize in business dealings, and most people have experienced this. Of course, there are many kinds of socializing, one is to act as a mass actor, such as accompanying the head of the company or the boss to go, the main task is to block the wine for the leader, to drink each other down, so that the other party in delirium to sign the contract; another is the first male protagonist, in order to complete a certain business purpose, personally, to raise a glass to invite customers, wine to ask the contract, interspersed with some of the three knotted plot of the peach garden is essential; there is another is Producer, how the content is secondary, how the means is also secondary, the most important purpose is to make money. The third situation is often the most likely to appear non-normal program, and after all, to do that degree of Liu Xiahui’s men are really not much.
Marriage is a big deal, before marriage must be carefully thought, men before marriage has the above 8 knots, want to go into the hall of marriage with him, first understand his pre-marriage knots.