NO.1 Boys don’t want to love, just understand; girls don’t want to understand, just love.
Find a boy who loves you 100% and you love him 50% in love. The 50% energy saved can be used to read and understand the guy who loves you 100%. To be clear, guys are for understanding, not for loving. When he has a macho attack, you know how to give him face; when he is vulnerable, you pull his hand. Do not want to spend time to understand him, just want to love him 100%, look at the film and television drama of those girls end up, the movie “I love you” Xu Jinglei love FangYan, love FangYan almost jumped, they also went crazy; Korean drama “lady diary” in the heroine 100% love, tracking boyfriend, the boyfriend or play Miller’s “jailbreak” spirit, run with others The first time I saw it, I had to go to the bathroom.
Boys are meant to be understood, not loved. If you love him too much, you’ll lose yourself, you’ll be centered on him, and you’ll be in danger. That’s right, you do not need to understand me, just love me. And I don’t need to love you, I just need to understand you, so we can get along and each take what we need.
NO.2 The function of this product for boys is to solve problems, not to listen.
You tell him about the trouble you had today, he listens carefully at first and tells you a solution, you go on and on, he looks less and less serious, so you are angry, how come you got a boyfriend who doesn’t care about you so much?
In fact, you’re wrong, guys and girls think fundamentally differently, when it comes to problems and stress, guys focus on solutions, girls focus on confiding in people, and his offering a solution is his way of showing love. The task is done, you continue to talk, he will feel that you are not satisfied with the solution he proposed, he did not help you, he began to doubt his ability, so began to be annoyed, on the other hand, you feel that he does not care about you, so you began to fight.
When you have a problem, ask the guy what to do, you need to listen to find the girl. Just like a vacuum cleaner, you can’t fish with it and getting the wrong product function is your problem.
NO.3 If he doesn’t seem to love you very much, he really doesn’t love you.
The biggest reason guys bully you is because he doesn’t like you at all. If he doesn’t seem too enthusiastic, it’s because he doesn’t love you.
The first time we went out to dinner, he offered AA; he said he’d be in touch instead of I’ll call you tonight; he said I’d ask you out later without giving a specific date; he said he didn’t want a girlfriend right now, but he was saying you weren’t the girlfriend he wanted; he said he was too busy to have a glass of juice, but he was saying you weren’t worth the time he took to have a glass of juice. accompanied. You gave him a lot of reasons for not calling, suspecting that his phone was lost or broken, suspecting that he traveled to a cave with no signal, but in fact, they are lying to themselves. In short, he doesn’t like you that much.
NO.4 Don’t blame him for taking every game seriously.
Boys always put themselves in a competitive situation, typically driving. The one who honestly goes his own way on the road and never runs red lights must be a girl, and the one who overtakes at every opportunity must be a guy. Girls drive to get themselves safely to their destination, and boys drive to leave behind those cars that set out with them.
The same goes for playing computer games. The psychologists’ survey showed that the five things guys want from girls are, in order: 1. sex; 2. attractive appearance; 3. the feeling of being admired; 4. the ability to play together; and 5. help with their careers. If he likes a particular game, and you don’t blame him for getting too into it, but try to act excited, he will include you in the category of being able to play together and feel better about you.
NO.5 guys who love you play silent in front of you, guys who don’t love you don’t even give you silence.
Girls feel that if he loves them, he should express and be passionate in minutes, and can’t figure out how he can say little and play silent when they are together. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. a way out, it will come out on its own.
Don’t bother him at this time, and don’t argue about whether you don’t love me anymore or not, just find something you like to do. Generally 20 minutes to an hour, he began to miss the sweetness of your side again, the initiative out. The boy does not love you, will flee far away, not even face his silent opportunity to give you.