Blind Zone 1: Fool, I’m all yours.
In fact, it is very scary for a woman to be really affectionate, not just to a man, but to herself, and she will willingly and completely, hysterically, without reservation, without rebellion, without even the slightest fallback. The first time I saw her, I was not sure if she was going to be able to do it. In fact, most men are spoiled animals, your sentimentality is good and true, but it often backfires and accelerates his pace of leaving you. Love marriage, each other a step away from the best, the temperature to 36. 5 degrees is appropriate. The women should remember that no matter what time you have to have your own certain privacy, because this privacy will be transformed into mystery and used to glue your marriage and love.
Blind Zone 2: Baby, you should be all mine.
There are many ways to be affectionate, and one of them is dominance and total possession. The Chinese concept of dominance in love may be better if it is a man, but if it is a woman, it always seems to be a bit incomprehensible and even inevitably not taken as crazy. Not to mention the man’s own problems, a woman who makes this mistake is at least vulnerable to the crusade of the man’s entire family, because she has unwittingly challenged his entire family.
Blind Zone 4: Whatever, you have to love me for life.
The biggest difference between amorous and unemotional and regular love is that only amorous people believe that love can last a lifetime. The amorous woman is a lot easier to think this way and will do so. So when they feel like this is hitting a wall, they will go crying because of the huge psychological contrast. Unconsciously and then in front of the “you have to love me forever” and then forcibly add a “whatever”, so the marriage and relationship crisis came. The first thing you need to do is to think about the fact that marriage and emotions are supposed to be a matter of two people, and you can solve the problem with just one “whatever”.
Blind Zone 5: It’s okay, he won’t cheat on me.
Also, a polyamorous woman is more likely to be superstitious about someone than the average woman. She thinks that as long as it is the person she loves, she should believe everything about her, even if it is full of loopholes in front of her, she is not willing to believe and face it, and will always measure each other with her own amorousness, thinking that I love him so much and never lie to him, and he must not lie to me. However, the truth is that marriage is not like that. There is no good and loving couple that doesn’t cheat, maybe the cheating is helpless, maybe it’s well-intentioned
Blind Zone 6: Hang in there, he’s just testing me.
Tell us another story: There was a senior female student, Xiao, and her boyfriend had been in love for three years in college. At the time of graduation, she received a text message from her boyfriend who was away on an internship. This is actually a text message that the boyfriend accidentally sent to her phone by mistake, originally he was going to send to another girl who was introduced by her family and was planning to get married. Perhaps such a text message, if it were another girl would have caused an uproar or become a reason to go straight to her boyfriend’s house. However, the affectionate Xiao, who was in the midst of immense happiness and contentment, didn’t take notice, but thought to herself, “He’s just testing me,” and missed the best chance to save her love and compete with others.
No matter what, marriage is never free of deception. Anyone with the slightest sense of marriage would have given themselves a precautionary shot early on in this regard.
Blind Zone #7: Don’t worry, I don’t want anything as long as I have you.
In real life, there are some girls who are young and inexperienced and think of love as pure and romantic. They mistakenly believe that love is the pursuit of pure abandonment of all earthly distractions together with each other, so constantly tell their boyfriends with words and actions: “Don’t worry, as long as there are you I don’t want anything!” The men were of course moved to hear it and begged for it. But it doesn’t take long for them to realize how painful it is to be hungry for a relationship. The actual fact is that it’s so exhausting to move around and rent an apartment, right? But when they wake up, it seems to be too late, because they missed the opportunity to choose, and gave up a crucial power in their lives because of their ignorance and sentimentality on one hand, when they had the most say.