Most leftover women are reminded of their age by the people around them, and then actively or passively start looking for their other half. When they find the courage to take the first step, they realize that they seem to have a “can’t start a relationship” disease. What to do? Many women become leftover women because they focus on their studies or work, which leads to a smaller social circle and no new friends, so they are slowly left behind. After entering society, it may be a long time to meet their heartbeat of men, or not in a relationship, slowly do not know how to fall in love. If you have any of the following hints, then pay attention.
I. Not paying attention to their appearance
First of all, I have to mention The first thing that has to be mentioned is that they have forgotten that they are women. For example, the way they wear makeup hasn’t changed a bit in over two years, they don’t buy seasonal clothes, they don’t know how to fix their nails when they’re long (and they occasionally get dirt under them), and it’s been six months since they last went to the salon ……
II. Not paying attention to their behavior in public
Not paying attention to their behavior in front of people is also evidence that they forget that they are women, for example, sitting For example, squatting directly on the ground when riding on the tram, or even putting on makeup on the tram …… on the tram, is no different from showing your butt in front of everyone.
Three, whining
The next thing to say is that their bodies and hearts couldn’t be fuller! If you want to say what kind of state it is, whether it is work or interpersonal, when they open their mouths, it’s all whining words. And friends together also net say some “leadership and angry at me ……”, “why is always me ……” and so on. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Four, the joy of life is to eat and sleep
Say they still have fun. The only two things that remain are eating and sleeping. The body accumulates a lot of fat, but the desire for love is not satisfied. Television and magazines are healthy things, but they tell them that it is important to keep their bodies in good circulation, but they can’t whisper the sweetness of love. With poor body circulation and a lack of care from men, their hearts and bodies are gloomy and lifeless. Everything must have a cause. In fact, older leftover women are like angels with broken wings, inside while longing for love, while resisting it. This is usually the case, most likely due to the following reasons
Five, too low self-esteem
Older leftover women due to long-term The first thing you need to do is to get married, so it is inevitable that you will have low self-esteem. Especially after seeing the sisters and girlfriends around have a happy home, this inferiority complex of older women is even more serious. As a result of low self-esteem, so the face of love will always be hesitant, and eventually had to be left. As left by love, so more inferiority complex. This is caught in a vicious circle. In fact, age is really not a problem, and appearance is not the only determining factor for love. As long as the heart is pure and good, you can blossom the brightest smile. The only way for older women to overcome their inferiority complex and regain a confident smile is to meet a beautiful love soon, and then say goodbye to singleness and leave the ranks of older women.
Six, too self-absorbed
The so-called self-absorbed, that is, self-imposed. Like a person will be humble to the dust, and then a flower will bloom. The meeting in this life needs many times of looking back in previous lives in order to exchange. The reason why many older women will always be single and not ever be pampered by love, a large part of the reason is that they are too self-absorbed. If a person lives in a self-contained environment for a long time and refuses to make any changes or concessions, then the leftover women will eventually only grow old in their pale years. To meet a person of the opposite sex, to start a love affair, you must convince yourself to try to step out of the cage of self-imposed bondage. If you love, you have to be brave enough to confess. If you are too self-conscious, you will only let yourself pass by love. Outside the window, there are birds of love flying by. The windows are closed to the leftover women, so the birds of love can only hover outside the windows. The truth is, as long as the older women gently open that window, they will welcome the fragrant and beautiful love.