In the workplace, it’s not just the work that causes the war, it’s also the stories that go on and on. When one day, Cupid’s arrow hits you and your boss, you can talk about work, but you can also talk about love? In any case, it’s better to proceed with caution.
1. First, determine whether the company prohibits relationships between colleagues. If it is explicitly prohibited, and you can’t afford the risk of being fired, and you can’t psychologically withstand the finger-pointing from onlookers, it’s better to avoid talking about it. If the company has unspoken rules in this area, you still have to be careful of the company’s “stick to beat the lovebirds”.
2. Make sure the other person is single, so you don’t accidentally become a third party.
3. Make sure you can care less or don’t care what the next person thinks. Your intimacy, unconsciously, creates insecurity around your colleagues, and it’s natural for onlookers to have thoughts.
4. If you’re going to talk, don’t start an underground relationship. You can find an opportunity to have a meal with your colleagues and go public with the romance between you and your male boss. Do this to stop rumors and to protect yourself from emotional deception.
5. The “ambiguous” gate should be turned off at work. The original love affair between colleagues is a sensitive topic, and if there is still ambiguity at work from time to time, all legitimate reasons for love will be “illegally banned” by the company because of the impact on work.
6. Don’t take advantage of a lover to ask your boss about confidential work-related information. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to meet the needs of their customers.
7. Whether or not you can remain financially independent. The same company, how much money is sent out is all transparent, and the possibility of wanting to have private money is greatly reduced.
8. Make sure it’s a decision made after deep thought and not a momentary burst of hormones. Impulsiveness is the devil.
9. The work schedule for both people after a successful or unsuccessful relationship.