Divorced women always tell what happened between their husbands and mistresses, and find out what they did wrong in many ways from what their mistresses did sinisterly. I hope their words can give all married women a prescription for prevention. However, it is most important for a woman to know how to love herself.
One, women are too family-oriented is not good, home is two people, should be run together
The premise is to think and do for him and the children, over time, the responsibility of the home to one person, he felt that everything so that is normal, if one day, you want to ask him to do what you do for the home, will cause resentment.
The remedy: is to share the responsibility of the family, slowly to give the focus to the man, their own support is good, not hard to support, and finally tired half dead and unpleasant. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two, the economic power to grasp, the heart of prevention is indispensable
In the past, always listen to his salary is not enough for their own use, as a result, do not want him a point, and eventually simply he will be conscious to the children also do not raise, because always see this family has not less money to use, and then critical times, but also without him to borrow money, pay back the money that, of course, do not need him, anyway. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The prescription: even if the man’s money is less, it must be combined to use, although the handover than the take away less, there must be a knowable destination, or the woman herself hard to save money to support the family, there are other women big hands to help you all used. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, the children should be brought together as a couple, the marriage of single mother practice is not desirable
Most mothers always take care of the children’s clothing, food, housing and learning, special tutoring and what not, fathers every day with work, social signs have a lot of time bored, but also think that no one cares at home, so go outside to find warmth.
The remedy: Don’t forget that he is the father of the child, it is only natural to do something for the child, let him spend more time with the child than with other women.
Fourth, you must be healthy and beautiful
The body is the capital, you must take care of it, in his words, “Take care of yourself, if you are sick, I will not care about you.” The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
The remedy: First of all, the first is to take care of your body, health first, and secondly, to dress yourself well, you will naturally feel much better when you are beautiful.
5. It doesn’t matter if you don’t work, but you have to have your own financial resources
It’s not the main thing if you have a formal job, of course, a stable job is the safest, if not, you have to learn to do some investment or something, anyway, that means you have to be able to support yourself.
The prescription: make investments to continue to secure your independence, recharge your batteries in preparation for work, keep an eye out for possible investment opportunities, and prepare for the possibility of change at any time.
Six, for all his behavior as invisible
Eyes not to see, not to worry, see also can not change him, and also let him complacent, you see how good I am this man ah, home and outside the woman in the competition ah, instead of pleasing him better to please themselves, as for him to love how to do it, of course, the consequences must also be clear to him, then do not say we are not righteous.
The prescription: what to do what to do, you do not take him seriously anymore, you have the original self.
The first time I saw this, I was able to get to the bottom of it.
Seven, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need not be too concerned
It is an old saying that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies.
The remedy: if you can’t get along, forget it, let your in-laws play how they like to play, don’t take it, don’t respond, because it turns out that once you take it, things are in trouble, just like a person can’t sing a play, you don’t care about their tricks, they themselves feel no taste, instead there is nothing to toss.
Finally, after changing all of the above, I found out that the man was in over his head again and was not going to get a divorce, and actually said he wanted to be with me until he was old.
The aftermath: trust is no longer 100%, but it doesn’t matter, because one already knows how to love oneself, which is the most important thing for a woman.