I believe that most women in love have some misconceptions about happiness. The following five are more common, and I hope sisters will read them to have a deeper understanding of happiness and to be a happy little woman in love.
The first one: seeing sex as dedication
Chinese girls have one of the biggest and greatest illusions that their bodies do not belong to them, but to some future man. The moralists say that it belongs to the future husband and that the ribbon will not be cut in a grand manner until the wedding day. Some malicious male scribes have tampered with it a bit, saying that a woman’s body belongs to her future beloved – whoever she loves, she should give it to. Both of these ideas are just as much bullshit. Your body is yours, it is the only thing in this world that truly belongs to you and the thing you should treat the best. There are always silly girls who, once they fall in love early, are logically sexualized early, and when they are fooled, they offer themselves up as a gift in a grand way ……
Come on, girl, think clearly, the body and the consequences belong to you all together.
You’re young enough to not even experience sexual pleasure yet you’re going to have to suffer the consequences of pregnancy, abortion, expulsion, and even disgrace!
The second: I’m his from now on
This is the most hopelessly silly thing I’ve ever heard a girl say. The first of these is that the girl’s heart is in the right place. I am his from now on! The girl was even raped on a date and then became his girlfriend or secret lover.
Come on girl, accidentally stepping on a foot of dog shit happens, and that kind of bad luck happens to everyone, but when you step on dog shit, are you ready to wear dog shit as a shoe?
The third one: He sucks, but I still love him
There is nothing more outrageous than this: he has 3 lovers and second wives, and he has N one-night stands, and I still love him. The average person who is in love with me is a man who beats me up once a week, and I forgive him. He doesn’t work just play cards and gambling and drugs, I still don’t want to leave him ……
Come on you girls, who told you love is unprincipled? To be hurt is to have a bottom line!
The fourth kind: to marry a rich man
Some MMs have come to their senses from that low-level love-only theory and rushed to the other extreme — everything else is fake, money is real. So it’s only right to marry a rich man.
Come on girl, polls say that the happiness index of rich men is higher, what is the happiness index of rich men’s wives, you don’t know, do you? Your existence is just part of the happiness index of rich men.
The fifth kind: have a son everything rest
Birth of a child, think that the family even if it is repaired, their own happiness will be repaired to the Western Buddha, lifelong happiness will have to rely on …… have a child husband can still run? Run the husband this is not still a son? …… treat your husband and children as pillars, you are like a dog chained to a pillar, the pillar ran away and barked and bitten. You certainly give your all for them, and they may not appreciate you.
Come on, happiness will always be your personal inner feeling, just like your body, and ultimately the only one who can be responsible for you is you, point by point, self-made, pain and happiness, ever.
When should a woman give herself up? The longer she holds back the more men love her
Many women foolishly think that men will love them more after they have had deeper physical contact with them, which is actually wrong. Women need to learn to be reserved and to resist physical aggression because the longer they hold it in the more men will love it, take a look.
How long should women be more open to relationships for intimacy
Some people think that intimacy can be kiss, or hug, or sex. So how long should these so-called intimate relationships be limited to?