How sad is it that couples who are emotionally broken or tired of struggling or struggling or divorcing or having an affair in the midst of months and months of hurt, when people who have experienced emotional conflicts look back, can’t even find the real reason why their marriage broke down? I am convinced that we all desire to outline a peaceful marriage, but the facts tell us the truth that the life of a couple has to start with the little things after leaving behind the material basis.
In daily life, many men have said the following six things to women, which may seem like a very indifferent thing to men, but can make women lurk a disappointment in their marriage.
1. When your wife goes out, don’t say: What’s the use of dressing so pretty.
Many women do not dislike dressing up, but lose the courage to dress up in front of men’s “what’s the use of dressing up so pretty”, when their beloved ones Because no longer dress up into a yellow face, men and smack women can not take. The woman is not trying to seduce her husband, but she is showing herself to her beloved one.
2. When a wife is concerned about her children, don’t say: It’s all because you’ve spoiled them.
The inherent machismo of Chinese men makes many children in childhood become overly attached to their mothers, and educating children is scientifically more effective for men than for women, because men will often be sensible The man often says that the woman spoiled the child, but the man does not see the woman’s hard work as an adult for the family, when the woman spoiled the child, the man should point out the child’s mistakes, rather than complain that the woman spoiled the child.
3. When your wife asks for your opinion on choosing clothes, don’t say: wear whatever you want.
Women fall in love with men, can kill too many hobbies for men, and will even lose too many friends, men are women’s days, so women desire their loved ones to appreciate themselves. The woman loves shopping, for this I am convinced that all men understand, if and their loved ones on the street, in the woman standing in the clothing store carefully selected, the man must not show impatience, must give their own rational advice, so that the woman will feel that you care about her.
4. Don’t scold your wife at her mother-in-law when she is fighting.
Husbands and wives quarrel, let alone mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Sometimes the quarrel will hurt each other’s feelings, but sensible quarrel can also enhance feelings, when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel, men will certainly be in a dilemma, both sides are the most important two people in their lives female, this time, the best way for men is to persuade both sides to stop arguing, do not think that the wife is his own, in front of the mother-in-law scolded his wife, that will not only destroy the emotions between the couple, but also It will also make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law increasingly stiff.
5. Don’t complain too much when your wife comes home late once in a while.
When a man can go out to socialize, why can’t a woman? We as individuals exist, there will always be some overtime or social occasions, men’s social seems to have become the natural thing, and women’s social in the eyes of men is not caring about the family, which is obviously unfair to women. Of course, Chinese women don’t have a dinner party every day, and when the occasional dinner party comes, men must show their generosity and recognition.
6. Don’t be sarcastic when you fight.
Beating people up is not in your face, cursing is not revealing. This famous saying seems to be known to everyone before they go to junior high school, but as a couple in a quarrel will always take some old stories to troll each other, which will not only tear the wounds in each other’s heart, but also make each other more chilling.
Being a man struggling to earn money is tiring, and being a woman trying to maintain a good family is also tiring. In family life, we should all play our roles well and give each other more tolerance and understanding and praise, and I am convinced that many family conflicts will be avoided.