Say the man can hold the boat in his belly, but in the road of relationships, not all your faults he can tolerate! Some small mistakes as long as you make once, he will drift away from you, so what are these small mistakes? What should you do about it?
Small Fault #1: Keeping him on your toes
Potential Crisis. Women tend to pay a lot of attention to changes in clothing, hairstyles, and even nails, while men are oblivious to them. When you changed your hair or other, he did not care, so you feel that he does not pay enough attention to you. The sense of loss will make you deliberately remind him and stick to him, so you call him several times a day to his office, making him uncomfortable ……
Thoughtful words: men’s sensory tissue is not as delicate as women’s So to him, he may be blind to many of the changes you make.
“Suck it up” approach: You can’t change all that by sticking to him, try calling him less often unless there’s something you have to say, and that will make him pay attention to you.
Small Fault #2: Picky about food or other
Potential Crisis. Xiaoxiao has a devilish figure that everyone envies, and she deliberately keeps herself slim; she hardly eats a bit of fat-laden food. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. “The first day of May, is Xiaoxiao’s birthday, he thought, in this special day, Xiaoxiao may be willing to make an exception. So he prepared a sumptuous meal, in the waving candlelight, waiting for Xiaoxiao to return. But Xiao Xiao looked at the table of fragrant dishes and said indifferently, “How can I eat this food?” She hurriedly went into her room and went to sleep.
Posted: Since then, Qiangzi has been cold to Xiaoxiao, because no man can stand a mean woman who is too picky.
“Suck the male” approach: try to change your lifestyle from now on, or you’ll find him getting cold feet with you because he may think you’re picky about more than just food.
Small Fault #3: Talking to your BFF about an old flame
Potential Crisis. Xiaoyu is an optimistic and cheerful woman who often invites her three or five confidants to her home for small gatherings. In the girlfriends praise Xiaoyu current boyfriend Alin at the same time, the topic will involuntarily turn to Xiaoyu’s former boyfriend Bin body. A few women are excited to talk about Bin’s fortune, everyone reveals the inhibition of envy and feelings. In fact, when Xiaoyu and her girlfriends talked about their old lovers, Alin was going crazy.
Tip: Many women are willing to talk to their girlfriends about old lovers, not to have any “other” meaning, but just to satisfy some psychological needs. But remember, don’t talk about your old flame’s success or handsomeness in front of your current boyfriend, or he’ll be uncomfortable in his heart. This is not because he is petty, but such topics are often related to his dignity.
“Suck the male” approach: Even if you talk to your girlfriend one day about an old flame or when your boyfriend takes the initiative to bring up the past “he “The first thing you need to do is to tell a lie and say that the other person is not comparable to your current boyfriend, so that your boyfriend can be happy, which is definitely good for your relationship.
Glitch #4: Insisting that he has something on his mind
Potential crisis. Sometimes your boyfriend is surprisingly quiet, which you tend to interpret as “something on his mind” on your own. The answer is still “no,” and you are irritated and resentful, and you even have a lot of feelings of being deceived.
Tip: Don’t forget that most men are not as talkative as women, they prefer to be in their own world, reading or watching TV. So even if he’s quiet, it doesn’t mean he’s in a bad mood, unless you just got out of a fight and he’s really upset.
“Suck it up” approach: Don’t ask questions, leave him a quiet place, and go do what you like to do. Remember, don’t keep bothering him, and don’t think about it.