How important is a house to a young person’s marriage? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The old saying goes, “If you can’t live comfortably, you can’t live comfortably; if you can’t live comfortably, you can’t have a family.
There are too many marriageable men and women who have gone through a long love marathon, only to stall in front of the reality of buying a house or not, until they finally break up with regret.
Men say: get married first and then buy a house.
The woman said: buy a house first and then get married!
When it comes to making the most important decision in life, what makes the world’s men and women wander and hesitate, tangled in pain, and stopping time and again in front of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
Buy a house first?
For girls who believe in the idea of buying a house before getting married, their thoughts are actually very simple, and there are no more than the following two.
Self-needs: Marriage is not a child’s play, it is a lifelong event. A house is a symbol of home, a house is a home, if you don’t even have a house, what kind of home is it? On the other hand, getting married in a rented room that does not belong to you, will not be carefully decorated, how to make it does not look like your own home, lack of a sense of belonging, and no sense of security in life.
Parents demand: A house is the material guarantee of love. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The newest addition to the list is the house, where the couple will be able to grow the “crystallization” of their love.
The girl who asked her boyfriend to buy a house before she gets married is not being unreasonable, as the concept of “living in a house” has been around for a long time, and even the most intense love will eventually turn into a bland food, clothing and housing. Marriage is about two people snuggling together, seeking a stable place of warmth. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to the public.
Take a step back, even if a love-crazed girl is willing to get married first and buy a house later, her parents may not agree. Once love meets parental obstruction, the likelihood of marriage is greatly reduced. The actual love and reality of the girl, the requirement is to buy a house before marriage, the house can be old and small, but still have, so that parents and their own hearts are solid.
Marriage first?
We can’t rule out girls who are open-minded and whose parents are also open-minded and willing to marry a man who has no family.
They believe that marriage is people-oriented, and that it is harder to meet someone you really love than to buy a house, and now that prices are high, it’s not too late to buy when you earn money together. Admittedly, there are merits in renting a house to get married, one is that renting a house does not require a large down payment, which can be a great relief for young people. The second is to rent a house to live closer to their workplace location, so you can save on transportation costs, but also to avoid excessive delays on the way to and from work. Third, you can rent a room without renovation, saving a lot of money. Fourth, you can change your room anytime you are not satisfied, so you are free to do so.
But such marriages mostly end up in two extremes, either because the instability of life leads to friction and ends in tragedy, or the man is a potential stock, after marriage or steady progress, or a flight to the sky, will live a small life, nourishing, and finally have the ability to buy a large enough cozy house.
However, marriage is the most important decision and bet in life, and not every girl can bet on the right one.
Whether to buy a house first or get married first? Ultimately, it comes down to a combination of your own circumstances to decide. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. But nowadays, marriage has been mixed with too many realistic and materialistic factors. The first thing that we should do is to think about whether to buy a house or get married first.