On the occasion of the November 11 “Bachelorette Day”, the dating site and the China Population Propaganda and Education Center jointly released the “Fourth Quarter Survey Report on Chinese Men’s and Women’s Views on Marriage”, with more than 100,000 people participating in the survey. The survey shows that there are differences in the details of love between men and women of different ages, and that it is necessary to know oneself and one’s enemy in order to get a person who knows one’s heart.
Website matchmaking focuses on information security “Post-80s” and “Post-90s” prefer text communication
More than half of the men and women surveyed use dating sites as a way to meet the opposite sex because of a lack of channels.
More than half of the men and women surveyed are using dating sites as the preferred way to meet the opposite sex because of a lack of channels. At the same time, the uncertainty of the Internet has made dating safety a concern for them.
In order to learn more about their date, 82% of women and 75% of men believe they should communicate with their date before meeting them. In terms of chatting style, the difference in communication style between men and women born before 1980 and the “post-80s” and “post-90s” is obvious. The “post-80s” and “post-90s” prefer text messaging and other mobile platforms, while men and women born before 1980 prefer to call and use dating websites to get to know each other.
Gong Haiyan, founder of a dating site, said that in order to ensure the safety of dating, the latest subsite launched a three-dimensional crossover membership information authentication system as well as a user dating credit score mechanism and cloud platform to provide singles with more accurate, efficient, authentic and secure membership-based online dating services.
More than half of “post-90s” women go on blind dates with their partners.
In order to prevent the dilemma of “seeing everything” on a blind date, 17 percent of men and 26 percent of women said they would prepare a way back for themselves before the blind date. Half of them will choose to have their best friend contact them at an agreed upon time, and the other half will think of their own reasons for leaving in advance. As they get older, singles are more likely to find their own reasons to leave rather than rely on friends.
In addition, nearly 30% of women prefer to bring their peers on a blind date, and the younger they are, the more likely they are to bring their peers. Of course, the “noisy” situation often happens on blind dates, and nearly 80% of men said they wouldn’t hesitate to go on the offensive if they saw a female companion brought by a blind date.
There is also a big difference between men and women when it comes to being late. The survey showed that men are “strict with themselves and lenient with her”. Only 12% of men think it’s acceptable for them to be more than 20 minutes late, but 71% of men think it’s okay for women to be more than half an hour late, and a quarter of men are even willing to wait more than an hour. And when men are more than 20 minutes late, 40% of women are no longer willing to keep waiting, and when men are more than 40 minutes late, basically no women will wait.
Men and women have different instrumentation concerns and will be in touch within two days of a successful blind date
The survey showed that while 90% of people think first impressions are important on a blind date, men’s instrumentation preparation is not exactly the same as women’s concerns.
Men’s readiness and women’s attention were higher for the most basic items: “shaving” and “changing clothes.
When it comes to details like “sock color,” “nose hair,” and “perfume,” women pay more attention to them than men do; men pay more attention to whether their shoes are clean, but women don’t really care as much as men do.
In the dating process, more than 3/4 of men will insist on chatting for a while even if they are not very satisfied with their date at first sight, and more than 60% of women also said they would insist. The number of women and men who turn around and leave is low. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
When it comes to choosing a topic for a blind date, both men and women are consistent in their reluctance to answer questions related to property and exes (boyfriends/girlfriends).
Gentle and considerate people are popular with the opposite sex, and external factors have little influence on the success of dating
According to the survey, women like men who are thoughtful, idealistic, gentle and considerate at the same time.
Inevitably, a blind date involves the cost of dinner and a movie, on which men and women can basically agree: about 80% of men and women think that men should pay for the first meeting, but “The post-90s and relationship-oriented women are significantly more accepting of AA than the rest of the population.
Ninety-nine percent of men would contact a woman first after a blind date if they felt okay about it, and 87% of women and 88% of men said the first contact after a blind date should be within two days of the date.
Most of the users surveyed believe that the key to assessing the success of a blind date is the blind date itself, and has little to do with external factors such as the setting of the blind date or the quality of food and drink.
Huang Fang, the chief dating expert of the dating site, suggested that single women should not look for their dream man in romance novels and demand too much from men, while the “perfect man” does not exist in reality. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.