How do you maintain a long distance relationship? The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of how to maintain your relationship.
Don’t put too much emphasis on distance
In fact, long-distance relationship is also a way to fall in love The difference is that living apart, the lifestyle of the lovers has changed, and we shouldn’t be preoccupied with the idea that it’s different, and put a “long distance must be divided” cap on it. In fact, many long-distance lovers happy are the same, unfortunately each has its own different, but if you analyze these things happening around, we can easily find: two people can eventually come together, the key role also lies in the two people’s character is suitable, and long-distance relationship has little to do.
Trust each other
Low self-esteem and lack of trust can ruin a good relationship. relationships. As an example, I know a woman who met a nice guy, the first guy she met after spending 3 years “recovering” from a previous relationship. Unfortunately, she was still carrying the baggage of her last failed relationship. She categorized this good man as a bad man, was suspicious and insecure, and eventually lost him. Don’t entangle the present with the old. Give the present a chance. My philosophy is that I trust you completely until you’re not worth trusting. If you don’t trust each other when you’re deep in a long distance, then you’re sabotaging your own relationship.
There’s a fair amount of courage
A long-distance relationship, first of all What is needed is courage, a courage to challenge reality, a courage to be able to take any risk, a courage to be able to face failure openly. Understand that reality is a powerful and invisible force, and none of us can anticipate what will happen, but it is possible to muster the courage to fight this force, and we can muster the courage to accept the consequences of failure.
Being faithful to each other
It’s easy to develop a psychological loneliness in a long distance without the company of a lover. The loneliness of a psychological condition that can evoke inner longing and desire. Only absolute loyalty can resist the temptation from the flowery world. Loyalty is not “silly”, it is the respect for feelings and respect for their own; loyalty is not “dumb”, it is a refinement of a noble personality; loyalty is not “dumb”, it is a moral It is a morality and a responsibility.
Planning to meet regularly
Meeting regularly is very important to the success of a long-distance relationship. It is very important to meet regularly for the success of a long-distance relationship. As with number one, set a guideline for how often and when you will see each other. After you set a date, make sure there are no interruptions on that day. When you cancel (“My friends invited me to the beach” or “I forgot I have finals that week”), you are saying to the other person that the relationship doesn’t mean anything to you. You should cancel all arrangements in order to see her/him. If you’re letting other things interfere with seeing each other, then it might be time to reconsider why you want to be together.
Share each other’s lives
Because it’s a long-distance relationship, there’s definitely distance The most important thing is that lovers should use instant messengers to communicate more often and share their lives with each other. For example, if you want to see how your lover has changed recently, you can use QQ video; if you want to hear each other’s voice, you can always pick up your phone and open WeChat voice to talk about what’s happening around you, so that your lover can be clear about what’s going on in your life, and so that there is no disconnection.
Cultivate common topics
Try to cultivate some common topics and maximize shared interests (note that they are shared). We both like American TV and movies. We both like American dramas and movies, so we watch them together (not necessarily at the same time), and we can talk about them a lot. Occasionally, we read the same novel. Occasionally we go to see mutual friends and family, and we can talk about gossip that interests each other when we video.