When it comes to that, women don’t know much, and men know differently.
It’s like if you told a man, “Honey, let’s live together!” He’ll be happy to do it, and he’ll probably move in with his bags the next day. But you tell a man, “Honey, let’s get married!” He’ll frown, and then half a day later he’ll say, “Uh …… let me think about it.”
Because for men, living together is just a matter of packing up and living together; when you separate, it’s just a matter of saying hello, packing up and leaving, and there’s nothing material to lose. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
But marriage is a different story. In addition to the material sharing, a man must leave his mark on the red book; his wife has a child, she has to call him father, and he must have the obligation to support the child; his mother-in-law and father-in-law are sick, and he has to fulfill his responsibility to support them. . And, once the marriage is not harmonious, divorce also involves the division of property, can not be as simple as carrying bags away. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Honestly, when two people live together, the man can at most clean up the house, move things to fix the computer, what can be experimented with this shit? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
On the contrary, there are many ways to test each other, and it seems like in every article I emphasize how to understand men and get insight into their minds. For example, a text message, his different replies, we can learn how much he is attached to you; for example, if you go out with him and see how he dresses and how well he prepares, you can also gain insight into his habits; whether he is willing to spend money for you, how he treats your friends, how he treats his parents, and so on, we can find out his taste, quality, and character through all kinds of details.
It’s not necessary to wait until you’re living together to observe a man’s every detail, and it’s not necessary to live together to find out. I admit that cohabitation can serve the purpose of trial marriage, but it is not the only one, nor is it the best. Because cohabitation is always your death knell for women with unplanned pregnancies! Cohabitation for trial marriage is kind of the stupidest motivation for cohabitation.
Think about the time when Luo Da-young and Li Lie lived together for 11 years, and he told reporters during an interview, “We took so long to get married because we felt we should be more responsible for our marriage. We were walking down the street in New York on April 7, 1999, and walked past a town hall where marriages are registered, and just walked in on a whim, and we got married in the most stress-free state.” However, after only a year of marriage, the two divorced. The reasons for the divorce vary, but the truth of it is obvious: marriage and cohabitation are not the same.
Now you should understand, right? The two of them are living together, but after they get married, all the problems appear at once. It’s because you said, “Will you stay with me?” and the priest said, “Will you stay with me? and the priest said, “Do you want to be with her forever?” –There’s a big difference between the two statements. And that’s the difference between a verbal promise and a legal contract.
Claude Lerrouche, a legendary director who spanned several eras of French cinema, once said, “People keep moving forward, but love is moving backward. In the last century, when I wrote a letter to my lover, it took at least two weeks to arrive and another two weeks to reply, and those four weeks were wonderful. Love requires imagination. Once upon a time when you received a 3-page love letter, you might have to read it 20 times. The state of mind in which love is prepared is more interesting than love itself. I think men and women used to be happier together than they are now.”
Women, deserve to enjoy the best parts of that stage of life at every stage of life. In a relationship, a woman deserves to enjoy the process of thinking about and being missed by a man.
Once you live together, all of these best parts of love are gone. When you get home after a date, he does his thing, you do your thing, there’s absolutely no flashbacks, no nostalgia, because he’s right there, you can see him, and he can see you. Wow! Assuming that once the relationship starts, he sees you every day, no missing, no pining, don’t you think that’s tedious and boring?