There is nothing more displeasing to the seven aunts and eight uncles than the group of “leftover women”. A twenty-seven-eight, or even thirty-something women, wandering around not looking for an object not to talk about marriage not to parents to support the face, simply unforgivable sin! The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
“Older people don’t get married”, this kind of “not my kind” in the eyes of the world, like The “infertility” is as disgraceful. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
The leftover women don’t bother to respond to these opinions, so the good guys are pulling a random crooked girl and advising the leftover women to sell themselves at a cheap price to make ends meet.
Selling at a cheap price? The world’s most important thing is to be able to get the most out of your life.
The stronger the means, the easier it is to be left
The real meaning of the word “leftover” is that The leftover women, should be such a group: high education, high income, high age, in marriage can not get the ideal home of older young women. They are mostly distributed in the first-tier cities such as North, Guangzhou and Shenzhen. There is a bright and shiny job, a wise and intelligent mind, fully independent in the economy, in life is also full of interest and taste. The reason they are left is not because they are flawed, on the contrary, it is because they are too good, so when you look at them, there are not many men who can match them.
1. Leftover Women’s Manifesto: My Life is My Business
< strong>The more capable a woman is, the more she has a “discerning eye”
The results of a survey show that women who think ” The results of a survey show that 53.98% of people believe that “the economic conditions of the ideal marriage partner of ‘leftover women’ should be comparable to them”. Only 2.79% of the respondents found that there are “leftover women” around who prefer to accept men who are not as good as they are in order to get rid of the “leftover” as soon as possible. This shows that women with high education and high income are very discerning, not what crooked can have children with them, and are unlikely to lower their standard of living for the sake of marriage. In the marriage market, the process of constantly searching for a quality spouse, they have long refined their eyes, they are adhering to the concept of better than nothing, they would rather continue to look for, rather than second best. If they can’t find a quality spouse, they might as well stay left.
Single is so good, married lowers quality of life
“I go home alone, eat, watch TV, clean my room, do whatever I want, some people think I’m lonely, but I think it’s good to live quietly”, are the heartfelt words of an older, quality leftover woman. It can be said that most leftover women support the idea that since their economic conditions allow them to live the life they want, why should they change the status quo? Married to a poor man, lowering their standard of living not to mention, but also to worry about the various complex relationships brought about by marriage: in-laws, sisters-in-law, and so on and so forth. Single, do not have to change their habits because of the other half; do not have to be told what to do because of spending money; do not have to consider the funds to raise children …… all kinds of worries, all kinds of constraints and restrictions do not need them to consider. With so many benefits that only being single can give them, why bother to get married?
2. Men look at it this way:”
In this male-dominated society, whether men are good or not, they have more or less “masculinity The “masculinity”. They aspire to “false” power, status, dignity, if married to a woman with higher education, wages than their own, and stronger than their own wife, so that she is in charge of the family’s economic power, she said one, men can never say two, most of the family’s economic resources also depend on her, men in such a marriage will be subject to a variety of The man in such a marriage will be subject to various restrictions and constraints. So most men are willing to find a dumb and dumber girl to be their answer to the question, rather than a thoughtful and capable quality woman as a wife. Even though this wife can improve his material level, men are often still discouraged when faced with a high income leftover girl, saying it is difficult to manage.