Many women put off their lifelong commitment to fight for their careers, only to find out when you have time to rest that all your friends around you are already married. It is much harder to find a man of your own age. So some prefer to be leftover women, rather than get married. In fact, this is their psychology at play. The following, I and everyone to see what they are thinking about psychologically.
1, either the condition is not high or wearing internal height
Parents grew up She was taught to have high expectations of herself, so she went all the way to a PhD, earning close to six figures a month, and began to think about finding a good man, only to find that those with higher education did not earn as much as she did, and those who earned more than her did not have as much education as she did, and on the rare occasion that she met one whose education and income were both higher than hers, she was wearing an internal height gain on her feet.
2. Must wait for Prince Charming
She is a love She is an idealist, 100% adores marriage and family, more and more convinced that Prince Charming will definitely come from the sky, she resists faggots, and every time she breaks up, she writes inside her blog that the next one will be better. The only way to end up is to wait endlessly.
3. Too busy at work to be a housewife
She can stay up all night for She can stay up until dawn on a copy, but simply doesn’t have time to be a housewife, drafting her next conference speech while others are preparing a loving dinner. The most familiar friends in her life are her workmates, and she can be a boss, a confidante or even a fuck buddy, but never a girlfriend or a wife.
4. As long as the prince in the idol drama
Mr. A drives a BMW but The most important thing is that Mr. B is a good cook but can’t afford to buy a kitchen, Mr. C is handsome but only likes to play video games at home, Mr. D knows the most about love, but he is so ugly and still plays romance like others. The only way to bring comfort to a perfect man is through idolatry.
5. The otaku life has no room for men
Instead of going out on a date, it’s better to sleep at home. The first thing you need to do is to sleep at home, and instead of getting to know a person better, you should dive into online games. She used to come home, open the fridge, have a can of beer, lie on the couch, eat snacks, read comics, and spend time on the forum at 3:00 a.m. Buying clothes on a group basis, her schedule as an otaku was too diffuse to accommodate even one man.
6. Fall in love with men and stories between men
She can be alone She can watch the World Cup until 5 a.m., and the new “Three Kingdoms” to the end, but she has no common language with men all over the world, she watches soccer for “Cairo and Kaka’s affectionate eyes”, and she watches “Three Kingdoms” to figure out which one is more compatible with Zhuge Liang. Whenever a good man appears around, she reflexively looks for a CP to match him. What she fell in love with was nothing more than a story between men and men.
7. Blind date attempt
The first man was more than an hour late. The second man opened his mouth and asked if your family had a house to get married, the third man even asked for a discount on parking tickets, the fourth man brought ****, the fifth man simply had a girlfriend …… the tenth man took a look at a GAY …… matchmaking conference is the very best The General Assembly. Two or three blind dates a month to come to a conclusion. The good men are not fucking short of women.
8. Astrological determinists
She firmly believes that the constellation, Libra and Gemini are the match made in heaven. Of course, Aquarius and Aries are also good, the lion man is too macho. The Scorpion man is too controlling. Capricorn man is too calculating. Taurus man is too dull and boring. Unfortunately, she met the Gemini man cheated five times, the Aquarius man called sexlessness, the Aries man has been married. When she finally realized that “horoscopes are a lie,” she had developed an obsessive compulsive disorder: she had to ask about birth dates when she met people.
9. Mother-in-law phobics
She loves him, but she’s afraid of ****. The forum is full of “I’m speechless about my mother-in-law,” “My husband beat me in front of ****,” “My mother-in-law dislikes me for having a daughter,” and the entire shelf in the bookstore is filled with “Here comes my mother-in-law,” “Mother-in-law Fierce” “mother-in-law ate the whole family of the daughter-in-law” …… mother-in-law is the biggest imaginary enemy in her life. Face good heart oh degree no less than the wolf grandmother and poisonous queen. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, so it is better to go back to each family and find each mother.
10. Can’t handle family disputes
Relationship is a matter for two people, marriage is a matter for two families The marriage is a matter for two families. -The actual fact is that you can find out what kind of gifts you should bring to your relatives’ house, to who’s parents you should live with, who should go back to for the New Year, and who should raise the children. The difficulty factor of each question is comparable to “the chicken or the egg first”. The company is willing to live together for a long time, not to get married and not to get involved in the disputes of two families, breaking the head is only an internal conflict of the people.