I believe some women have had the experience of being in love with someone sweetly, but once they talk to him about getting married, they get evasive and ambiguous answers. In the eyes of men, the object of their preference and the object of their marriage cannot be generalized. The Japanese website MyNaviNews has an article on the five characteristics of women that men like but don’t want to marry.
1. Difficult to cook
As the saying goes “To capture a man’s heart, you have to capture his stomach first.” If his stomach are trying to get away from you, maybe one day he will also leave you. A 25-year-old man said, “Once when I was eating my girlfriend’s grilled cheese dish, the disgusting sour taste almost made me feel like I was dying, but she didn’t even realize the bad taste. It made me realize that the two of us couldn’t live together.”
2. A 28-year-old man said, “I have been dating my girlfriend for 5 years and we are talking about getting married. However, due to her family’s unhappy relationship, I was never introduced to her family. I like her a lot, but after all, the gap between our family environments is too big, so I had no choice but to break up.
It’s not that they didn’t love each other enough, but some objective factors caused them to go their separate ways from then on, which is very regrettable indeed. So, marriage is not just about two people knowing each other, but also about the harmonious support of two families. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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A 30-year-old man said, “After dating, sex became less and less, maybe partly because of myself, but every time she said ‘I’m not in the mood’, I can’t keep the relationship going. I’d like to have children if I get married, so I can’t ignore this issue.
It’s true that whether or not to have children is an inevitable topic in their future plans. But if both parties had been able to negotiate this happily and understand each other, perhaps the outcome would have been very different.
4. For most men, the cleaning of the house is left to their wives, so they would never consider marrying a woman with a sloppy lifestyle. A 31-year-old man said, “When I first went to her house, I was shocked by how dirty the house was. The dishes on the kitchen sink hadn’t been washed for a long time and were moldy, and the clothes and underwear littering the floor had collected dust. This also reminded me that she was not very tidy in the past, her backpack and purse were always dirty. The house was so dirty that I wanted to distance myself from her”.
5. Too much interference
It’s because I like him that I’m tied to him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. A 27-year-old man said, “My girlfriend is beautiful and gentle, but she’s just too tied to me. Even if it’s a work party, I’m not allowed to go as long as there are women there, and sometimes I delete all my female friends from Facebook. I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to do that.
It’s rare to meet someone who is a perfect match in terms of appearance and personality, but if you’re not careful, any of these situations could be the reason he ends up rejecting you. Especially the two aspects of living habits and the degree of interference, which are particularly important to men when considering marriage. So, women should pay attention to see if they are also a member of the “marriage insulator” it. If you are unfortunate enough to be among them, it’s not too late to make changes.