Love has nothing to do with age or identity, we need to fight for our own happiness, in the face of external criticism, we should go to follow the real thoughts inside, do not be disturbed, actively adjust their mindset, let their every day is full of sunshine, believe that in the future we can harvest the fruits of happiness,
The specific reasons and suggestions are three:
1. Don’t care about the criticism, happiness needs to be grasped by yourself
2. h2>Don’t worry about the criticism, happiness needs to be grasped by yourself
1. The most important concern for an older woman is “gossip”, which has a great impact on her, from psychological to daily social life. 2. 2. The death of a husband can cause psychological regret, and it takes time to get rid of it. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of it. If there is some “gossip” at this time, it is bound to cause a lot of psychological stress, which can manifest itself as aggravation, depression, being extremely concerned about what you say and do, and being more concerned about what others think. More serious will cause social fear, do not want to deal with people. In fact, most of such mental activities and emotions are due to their own subjective assumptions about the outside world, that they need to pay attention to their words and actions to avoid introducing criticism. There’s nothing wrong with being careful about what you say and do, but it’s better to be overly so. 3. Try to spend less time alone and more time interacting with friends; try proper aerobic exercise to get rid of the knots in your mind; take other people’s words seriously, keep your opinions to yourself and ask yourself what you really think; keep yourself on a regular schedule and try to learn new things. You can try to learn new things to divert your attention. 4. After the death of the husband, the wife will deliberately distance herself from the opposite sex. The reason for this is twofold: first, to avoid suspicion, so as not to provoke gossip; second, unable to let go of the shadow of her husband’s death, and needs time and space to heal. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. In short, we don’t need to care about the opinions of others, we live our own lives, we run our own lives, and we need to grasp happiness with our own hands! Age is not an issue, we need to adjust our mindset 1. How do you know it won’t work if you don’t try? We always need to go and give ourselves and others a chance to get acquainted with each other. The first thing we need to do is to get to know each other, and then we’ll get to know each other, and then we’ll get to know each other, and then we’ll get to love each other, and then we’ll get to love each other, and then we’ll get to love each other, and then we’ll get to love each other, and then we’ll get to love each other. 2. Age is never a factor in choosing a marriage, the biggest factor is our own mindset, and we need to actively adjust our mindset. Adjust your mindset to be positive and optimistic 1. Accept your negative emotions in the moment. When faced with negative emotions we tend to resist and resist, when in fact the best way to accept our negative emotions is to acknowledge their existence. When you accept negative emotions, you will feel a sense of “reconciliation with negative emotions,” which is a good start. 2. Give yourself a positive mental note. Initially, you can look in the mirror and encourage yourself until you maintain a natural smile. In the later stages, if you encounter a low mood, you need to secretly give yourself a pep talk, or you can find a place where no one is around to shout it out loud to get the most out of your negative emotions. 3. Give yourself something to do and get busy. When you’re depressed, don’t be alone (with nothing to do). You need to keep yourself busy so you can distract yourself from your thoughts. We need to be proactive in our pursuit of happiness, not just in our own way. If you see the right person around you, you don’t have to worry about anything else, you can go out and make bold contact. You may think that we should be more reserved, but reserve is not meaningful for happiness, and we need to take the initiative to fight for it. Three elements: the family factor, the face issue, how to find The family issue: we are more worried about how our children will view our desire to remarry, but you don’t have to worry about that. We just need to talk to our children about our choice of marriage and tell them our vision in a calm way, and I believe they will give us their utmost support. The issue of face: We need not worry about the tedious traditions and what others think about your choice of marriage, which is not comparable to your fight for happiness itself. We need to earn our own face, not give it to others. In my opinion, happiness is all about face! How to find: You can watch out for single men around you to see if there is someone you like, or if there is a man who is pursuing you; you can go to some dating events, I believe there will be unexpected gains (don’t be shy); you can also check out the dating partners introduced by others, don’t refuse the rare good intentions and opportunities. In short, for happiness, we need to take the initiative to find a target and take the initiative for our own marriage! Be proactive in your search for your marriage