It is often said that if a person breaks up with you because of a small thing, it must have been a lot of things built up before, only that small thing became the trigger! What causes have to break up? The first thing you need to do is to take stock.
1, three views do not match
What is different values? To put it simply, there is a huge gap between two people’s spending philosophies. For example, men feel that life needs to have a balance, how much to spend half, the rest as a financial or savings for emergencies; while women believe that living in the present needs to enjoy life, money is to spend, moonlight is the way to go; more winners are earning five thousand but want to spend 10,000 of the main. Then, it can only be said that the values of two people with such a huge difference is really not suitable, if barely together in the future will also be because of financial problems and quarrels every day, break up and divorce are just a matter of time. The more time you have to spend, the more you will be hurt.
2, see things from a different perspective
The world is so big, I I just want to see it VS the world is even bigger and it’s none of my business. It is obvious that two people with two very different world views are not able to go long. Just like a monk will never have a Christian friend, everyone’s own beliefs are not in a system. The same world, in the eyes of two people, presents a different picture, and when each side wants to tell the other how they see the world, a conflict arises, and this conflict is insoluble.
3. If there is a huge difference in the understanding of love, then it is unlikely that these two people will ever get together. Some people think that love is a quarrel out of the feelings, some people are insisting that love can not quarrel, the two sides accommodate each other to have problems together to discuss the solution to people. Then these two diametrically opposed views of love in the process of bonding directly violent collision, resulting in the experience of a painful to unbearable feelings. So, although conflicts are everywhere, some can be coordinated, while some things cannot be coordinated, and I advise you not to waste time and energy on those irreconcilable conflicts, the gains are not worth the losses.
4, the door is not right for the family
I have to admit The inventor of the phrase “the right family” is so forward-looking that if there is a huge social status difference between a man and a woman in a relationship, then the weaker of them will have more and more inferiority complex, while the stronger one will look down on the weaker one, and the strong status difference will directly pull down all the good love. The end result is that there is less and less common ground and no exchange of ideas at all, then the strong side goes off to find their Soulmate, while the weak side is reduced to domestic labor at home.
5. No common topics
We should not underestimate this point The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. Then, the relationship exists in name only. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing.
6. Different ways of handling things
The so-called positive and negative energy carrier is the combination of a negative energy carrier paired with a positive energy carrier. Do not assume that the result is that positive and negative energies are zoned and harmonized with each other. Negative energy will always enjoy the zoned and harmonized effect of positive energy, while positive energy will gradually be influenced by negative energy, thus leading to the contamination of its originally pure positive energy core. For example, a particularly vindictive person always spits with his or her significant other, while the optimist’s significant other naturally goes to appease the other person’s negative emotions. Over time, the optimist will find that human nature is not so easily changed. Listening to each other’s trolling every day is like a tightening spell for the Tang monk, even the Qi Tian Da Sheng can’t stand it, let alone a mere mortal.
7, disharmony in bed
This is a matter of common sense. If the sex life is not harmonious, then the couple’s relationship will never be good enough. However, many girls are always naive enough to think that they love him as a person and do not love having sex with him. So, here comes the problem: along with age, women’s need for sex is growing, and he can not meet you, then you will only be forced to cheat on the road. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This is how things work, sometimes we can make miracles, sometimes we have to give in to the display. Many people break up because of the reasons above, and there are many people who go through arguments and still join hands to grow old. Besides, love is like people drink water and know how warm it is, the next person and then more inventory analysis is not as good as the person’s feelings. The actual situation of the people is still to be decided.