Internet dating, dating, online cohabitation ……, which are regarded as popular elements in the relationship world, turn out to be one of the characteristics of love panic! Recently, a website conducted an interesting “love survey report” on 20,000 “bachelors”, in which the panic index of both sexes towards love is of great concern.
The higher the education, the later the panic
According to the survey report, education
The higher the education, the later the panic
According to the survey report, education
Men panic three years later
In a structural analysis of respondents analysis, it was found that as soon as people crossed 25, they began to want to complete their personal lifelong events. For women, the 25-year-old panic is relatively easy to understand. For men, the panic is more of an illusion. Experts analyze that, in terms of marriage age, men are generally higher than women, and by the difference in marriage age between men and women, men’s love panic should be three years later than women’s.
“Three high” women are most at risk
The survey found that members between the ages of 25 and 30 are the most likely to find friends and are hot prospects on matchmaking and dating sites. And after the age of 30, the success graph of marriage will be all the way down, the difficulty increases geometrically, especially for women. Among them, the three high women with high education, high income and high age are the least favored. The “three high” women inevitably bring a sense of oppression to the men, due to the influence of traditional ideas, which is suspected of hurting men’s self-esteem.
Symptoms of fear of marriage
1. the opposite sex and then get a love affair
2. often have nothing to do after work because they are not in a relationship, and like to go to the supermarket alone
3. bored and looking forward to being a light bulb
4. ardently love the smitten hero or heroine of a romance
5. clearly remember every wedding you’ve been to. And the site’s counselors suggest that courting men and women should still face their fears head on and keep a good mindset of going with the flow and relaxing.
Prescription
Prescription: The fear of marriage itself is actually out of a sense of insecurity about the uncertainty of the future.
Rx 1: Give yourself the illusion of optimism. People feel fearful and uneasy when they face some future that they have no control over. The way to cope is simple: give yourself an optimistic hypothesis and imagination.
Remedy #2: Believe in your ability to cope, and gradually your focus will be on how to increase your ability to cope with change.