Chinese men think they know women well and think they are good at kissing skills, should we tell him “you’re not” or let him continue to be conceited so as not to hurt his feelings? And furthermore, why wouldn’t we want to learn to be a good kisser?
These are 10 things you need to know about kissing before you can work on being a good kisser.
1. Kissing makes you more beautiful
Many women are keen on various beauty and body care activities and feel that they can become more beautiful through various beauty and body care centers. In fact, you don’t need to go to such great lengths to become more beautiful, just a few hot kisses are all you need.
A passionate kiss puts 29 muscles of the face under tension, and these 29 muscles include 12 muscles of the lips and 17 muscles of the tongue area. In other words, kissing can be seen as an effective way to exercise, smoothing the skin, preventing wrinkles, and also accelerating blood circulation. Perhaps the effect of kissing is better than using various skin creams or doing masks. Of course, the kissing process is much more comfortable than using skin creams and masks.
2. Kissing makes you fitter
Don’t go on a diet for a few pounds, and don’t go to the gym too often or go to the body shop for liposuction, kissing can make you slimmer.
According to statistics, kissing burns 26 calories per minute, and a few minutes of kissing is like eating one less bowl of rice. While a quick romantic kiss may burn 2 to 3 calories, a French kiss burns at least 5 calories because French kissing involves opening your mouth and making tongue contact. Scientists have announced that to achieve weight loss, we do not need to kiss like crazy. Just three kisses a day that last 20 seconds can get you to the point of weight loss.
3. Kissing can prevent plaque and tooth decay
Similar to how toothpaste works, kissing can prevent plaque and tooth decay.
Kissing stimulates the production of large amounts of saliva, which contains calcium and phosphorus and is effective in preventing tooth decay. Passionate kissers are less likely to get gingivitis. In addition, the pH of saliva is neutral during kissing, which also prevents dental disease.
To have whiter, prettier teeth, kiss more often.
4. There are downsides to passionate kissing
Many young people nowadays like to seek excitement and enjoy passionate kisses.
These days, many young people are looking for excitement and love passionate kisses, but not all kissing is good for the body, and there are disadvantages to passionate kissing.
A passionate kiss lasting 90 seconds may raise blood pressure and cause a faster pulse rate. In addition, passionate kissing can increase blood hormone levels and reduce life expectancy by one minute.
So don’t indulge in a passionate kiss from time to time; a plain, simple kiss is often more difficult to forget.
5. How countries kiss
The French kiss is called “the union of souls”. When the French kiss, not only do their lips touch each other, but their tongues must also touch each other. The passionate French have invented many other ways of kissing.
The Eskimos kiss differently by simply rubbing each other’s noses. Only when the olfactory organs of the kissing partners touch do their lips open a little. Then the Eskimos take a deep breath and release the air when their lips join each other. After relishing each other’s scent, they squeeze each other’s noses with their cheeks.
When you go abroad, don’t use the Chinese style of passionate kissing, or people will treat you like a fool and follow the customs. So learn how to kiss abroad.
6. Kissing in public
Many young people like to kiss in public, thinking that it shows that they love each other deeply. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new product. The first thing you need to do is to be aware of the etiquette of kissing in public.
In Japan, Taiwan, mainland China, and South Korea, kissing in public is often considered bad manners. Two Japanese people should maintain a certain distance before kissing each other, bending and bowing and kissing each other for a second after their heads touch.
7. Kissing taboos
Ladies should wipe off their lipstick before a hot kiss, otherwise he’ll have clown red lips after the kiss; if your lips are dry, it’s best to apply some lip balm.
Don’t run your tongue over your lips before kissing. The lover in front of you is not a 10-pound lobster, and for the same reason, please don’t bite or suck on your lips, tongue, etc. And opening your mouth so wide will make you look like a prey crocodile.
8. Don’t want to kiss
If you really don’t want to kiss and don’t want to hurt each other’s feelings, you can tell him, “My dentist said that because of root decay, nothing foreign should be allowed in, so you can only eat through a straw.”
If the person refuses your kiss, the way a lady or gentleman would do it is to never get angry or upset at the time, and to stay calm on the outside even if you feel like dying of humiliation or crying in despair at the moment. It’s not too late to kill yourself afterwards.
9. Give it your full attention
When kissing, don’t keep thinking about the other person’s breasts or buttocks, a real lady or gentleman will enjoy the moment and focus on the kiss first.
Gently caressing each other’s cheeks when kissing is romantic, but never press hard on someone’s face and hold their head tightly without letting go. There is absolutely no need to turn a good kiss into a criminal act.
10. Don’t just say it
If you don’t want someone to lick your ear, you should just tell them that. Even if you don’t mind, it’s best to remind him to kiss gently. Also, the ear is not a horn, so you don’t have to blow hard against it. The bottom line when kissing the ear is to kiss around the earlobe. If the lover stops kissing between the ears, don’t let him return to work.