After hearing the words “confidant”, women are alarmed and feel that this is the ticket for men to start falling into the abyss of change of heart. However, smart women know how to give men space, not to kill all his opposite sex confidantes in one go, but to distinguish what is lethal and what is safe.
Green Lover Type
Influencing feelings Index: ☆
other half tolerance: ★★★★★
A green lover is a breath of fresh air in life, reassuring to your lover, comforting to yourself, and doesn’t have any impact on each other’s lives. Most importantly, let the other half know this person, understand this person, and become friends at the same time, adding a double insurance for love. Then this friend is no longer just a person out of thin air, and one’s significant other’s tolerance level goes up infinitely!
This identifies: such a confidant of the opposite sex is befriendable, tolerable, and not defensive.
The Two Little Ones
Influence on Relationships Index: ★★★
Significant other tolerance: ★★★★★
The hairy emotions are really subtle, as they go through every growing stage of life together, etched in stone. However, it also makes the life partner’s heart very uncomfortable and even becomes troubled for this reason. In fact, for you, you can categorize your husband’s and your hair’s emotions as completely relational and totally uncontradictory to yourself, and try to reach out to each other and become sisters so that the crisis will all be lifted!
This identifies: the other half’s hairdresser, make sure to rectify it as your own bestie, happier, more comfortable, no hard feelings, no selfishness.
Pure work partner type
Impact Marriage Index: ★★★★★
Significant Other Tolerance: ★★★★★
It’s a great blessing to have a partner who is seamless at work, but that partner sets up life with no small obstacles! This family situation depends largely on the man’s willingness to adjust his mindset. The work is part of a circle where two people in a marriage largely do not intersect, and in this circle alone is inevitably a little tired. Wouldn’t it be pleasant to have someone with whom to help each other, so that the other half can spend more time with you as a couple?
There you have it: trust your other half, think differently, and know that life can be easier for you!
The ambiguous type
Influencing marriage Index: ★★★★★
Significant Other Tolerance: ☆
When there is an implication of ambiguity between friends of the opposite sex who have nothing to say, then the blow to the marriage can be heavy, even if the body is truly innocent. From a psychological point of view, ambiguity is a kind of spiritual derailment, and spiritual derailment is often more terrible than physical transgression. You stay with another person of the opposite sex, hoping to help her in the first place, and likewise longing for her comfort when you have a problem …… This is an absolute betrayal in the other half, and many people are unable to tolerate it, eventually leading to divorce. The heterosexual confidant can be there, but please put away the ambiguous implications, sometimes an ambiguous illusion can destroy an intact family.
This identifies: ambiguous confidantes, there are bears out there, please go around.