From the air hostess who was killed on May 5 to the kindergarten teacher in Yueqing who was killed on August 24, two vicious incidents of rape and murder of single women by ride-hailing drivers occurred consecutively in just three months.
Two young girls left this world forever, leaving endless grief for two broken families.
While sighing and lamenting, we are also worried about the world we live in.
Hell is empty and the devil is on earth.
We don’t know when
the doom will fall on the heads of our families and friends.
So what can we do to protect ourselves when danger strikes?
Perhaps from the following real-life examples, we can learn ways to save our own lives in times of crisis.
One day, a 911 operator in the United States received a call from a woman ordering a pizza, and after the operator repeatedly emphasized that this was a 911 call, the woman said to herself that she wanted to order a pizza as if she hadn’t heard.
The operator thought she was playing a prank at first,
but after a few seconds, she immediately sensed the seriousness of the situation.
This is a short film based on a real incident ……
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Woman calls police to order pizza, and the truth behind it is unsettling!
Below we restore the chilling passage in words:
(The operator picks up the phone):
“This is 911, what is your emergency call for help?”
The woman calmly gave her address.
The operator asks, “Okay, why are you calling 911?”
“I’d like to order a pizza delivery.”
“Ma’am, this is a 911 emergency call.”
“Uh …… my pizza will be large and then extra mushrooms.”
“Uh…do you know you’re calling 911 for an emergency call?”
“(Interruption) About how long will it take to get there?”
“Ma’am, is everything okay in your area? Has there been an emergency?”
“Yes.”
“So you can’t speak explicitly because ……”
“(interrupting) Yes, yes. ”
“Is there anyone else in your room? Just answer ‘yes’ or ‘no’.”
“Yes.”
“Okay (a few seconds of hesitation), listen, I’ll arrange for an officer who’s a mile away in the neighborhood to come to the house and check it out, is the person in the house armed?”
“No.”
“Can you stay on the line?”
“No. Just get it here as soon as you can, please.”
The operator later revealed the outcome of the case on social media sites:
When police arrived on the scene,
they saw a woman with serious injuries and a drunken man.
The man, the woman’s boyfriend, had been beating her for a long time before, and the consequences would have been unthinkable if the police hadn’t arrived in time!
The truth behind this strange ordering call is frightening!
The resourceful and calm lady and the smart and patient operator,
together, defused the disaster.
The smartest thing about this woman was that she gave her address at the beginning,
and then remained calm throughout – any panic would have spurred the irrational “boyfriend” into a violent action.
This woman may have had only one chance to call for help, and she took it.
In fact, when disaster strikes, the opportunity is often fleeting.
In the case of the girl just killed in Yueqing, The Onion noticed a detail –
The girl found out something fishy ahead of time and sent twitter to her friends:
“Scared, this master drove the mountain road, a car None.”
Five minutes later, four more words were sent “help” and “rescue.”
The inference is that during this time she should have been moving freely and even had access to a cell phone.
The word “rescue”was probably a typo that she made in panic when the perpetrator did it, and what she really meant was “robbery.
The short five minutes before that
may have been the girl’s only chance to be saved.
If she had seen the 911 video, it might have been enlightening.
Perhaps she could have simply called 911 with a sense of danger, giving her location and the owner’s information without moving.
Or, she could have called her friend out loud:
“Hey, I’m already here in XX, yes, a black Geely with the license plate …… Huh, brother driver, what’s your license plate number? My friend said he would pick me up ……
Oh, don’t bother, I can see your information in my order, I’ll send it directly to my friend ……”
Be aware that at this time the vehicle is driving in no man’s land and showing any panic or shouting is likely to stimulate the other party to overreact.
This is the time to calmly “hint” at him, even if the call doesn’t go through.
We know that she can’t think too much about the situation, but it’s possible that one of these words could dissuade the suspect.
“She has my information ……”
“Her friend is coming to pick her up ……”
Alas, there are not so many ifs.
After losing the lead, the girl never had a chance to ask for help.
According to the latest police case notes:
The incident happened when the suspect went up the mountain from near Shijiao Long village, then drove to the vicinity of Jiangao village in Tanxi town when he stopped the car in an unoccupied place, tied up the victim’s hands and feet, sealed her mouth with duct tape, and then started asking her for money.
Because Zhao didn’t have much cash around, the suspect offered to ask the victim to twitter transfer to him, and as a result, the signal was bad on this side of Jiangao village, and the suspect drove the car back to Shijiao Long village, and then the victim gave him more than 9,000 yuan via twitter transfer.
After receiving the money, the suspect once again drove the car to the vicinity of Jiangao village.
After that, he assaulted Zhao and stabbed him in the neck with a dagger, causing a lot of bleeding ……
Finally, the suspect drove the car back to Shijiao Long village, threw Zhao under a cliff and fled the scene with his car.
The place of the crime is a wild and dense forest
The onion was excited beyond restraint after seeing the case briefing!
If the girl had acted in the precious five minutes ……
If the girl had calmly communicated with the suspect during the process, talking about her parents, friends …… even if it was just to awaken a bit of humanity left in his heart, could this tragedy have been avoided?
Perhaps she tried to call for help, perhaps the heartless Zhong did not give her a chance to ……
There is no point in discussing those “maybes” at this point,
more “maybes” will not bring the girl back. “
The onion believes that under the supervision of the relevant departments, the dropshipping platform will usher in a cleaning and rectification.
I am also sure that the suspect Zhong will get a severe punishment.
The dead are gone, the living are like this.
At this point, perhaps what we should be more concerned about is: when will the next danger come?
When danger comes suddenly, how do we respond?
What we need to do is:
Give the thugs a reason not to hurt themselves!
Professor David Wang, an expert in personal safety prevention, told of a real case – a word from an assaulted girl that brought about her death!
A girl from a prestigious university went out for a taxi at night, and the driver saw that she was pretty and single, so he raped her.
Afterwards the girl said something that made the driver get up and kill her.
“I remember what you look like, and I’m going to report it!”
The girl is smart and pretty, an excellent student, and the secretary of the school branch, who knows everything but safety precautions.
Professor Wang said that after the case was solved, they interrogated and found that the driver was a repeat offender and that several college students had been violated by him, but only this girl was killed.
Just because of the words she said.
Professor Wang summarized a series of safety precautions based on his years of experience in handling cases,
and here The Onion has simply organized a few to share with you.
First of all, let’s take an example:
If you are alone at the train station, carrying a heavy baggage, then a kind-looking stranger comes up and asks you, “Where are you going, little girl? Let me help you with your luggage, right?”
How would you respond?
Normal people usually have two responses:
1.
2. Sorry, no thanks.
Most of us would choose the second answer.
Actually, the best answer is:
3, Sorry, my boyfriend went to the bathroom and will be right back.
He won’t miss you when you say that.
It’s called not giving the bad guy a reason to hurt you.
In our daily lives, all we need to do is to be as risk-averse as possible and not give criminals a chance.
Pay attention to the following points that can help you stay out of danger.
1. When living alone at home
When women are home alone, make sure not to open the door completely and don’t let the courier or delivery person in.
Many times the crime is improvised because you give him the opportunity to take advantage of it.
2. When you go out alone
don’t wear expensive jewelry, don’t dress in revealing clothes, don’t take strangers’ cars, don’t take black cars, and don’t take streets with few people and dark lights.
3. When accosted by strangers
“Do you need my help?”, “Can you do me a favor?”, “We are old friends” ……
Many female victims start by accepting a stranger’s pickup line.
Be wary of strangers’ “caring” offers, and a “I’m waiting for my boyfriend” is likely to dissuade them from their evil intentions.
But in real life, things can change so quickly that
not all crises can be prevented.
How do single women respond to danger?
The following situations can be shouted for help:
1. when there are male friends around;
2. when there are crowds nearby;
3. when there are soldiers and police nearby.
When should I not shout for help?
1) When it is dark and there are few people around,
2) When you are alone,
3) When you have an intuitive danger,
When you are in a quiet and remote environment, if you shout loudly, not only will you not get help, but you will stimulate the criminals to do something too aggressive.
This is the time to fight for wisdom and courage.
Like the woman who made the 911 call, the most important thing to do in the face of danger is: stay calm.
Then take any opportunity to call the police and ask for help.
If possible,
try to reassure the suspect.
The Onion remembers a time ago when a woman living alone in Hangzhou, Zhejiang province, was robbed in her home.
The woman did not panic in the face of the masked robber, and after transferring 5,000 yuan to him, she smoothly talked to the other party about her feelings and life.
The man claimed that all the money was cheated away by his ex-wife and now he has no job and has to support his children.
Feeling sympathetic, the man simply took off his mask to “make friends” with the hostess, saying, “I’ve been renting across the street from you, and I’ve been watching you for a long time!
When he was caught, he said, “At first I thought she would (sympathize with me), and she promised me not to call the police.”
It is clear that this was a premeditated crime and that the suspect was a desperate, desperate man.
If the woman had screamed and shouted in the face of the criminal, or shown disgust and fear of him, there is a good chance that he would have killed her.
But she used her “compassion” to defuse a crisis.
You can see that communication is crucial at this point – even when the person is a criminal.
Please take this article seriously!
I hope you will share it and learn from it,
it may save a life in a crisis!