There is a saying that ambiguity is the precursor to love, the best time in a relationship, and that after the ambiguous period, men and women start to fall in love with each other. And another saying says that ambiguity is the fourth emotion between men and women who are between friends and lovers, because it is not inevitable that an ambiguous relationship evolves into a couple relationship. Many people like this fourth emotional period, especially men. Because the ambiguous period has many advantages that the relationship period with friends does not have.
It’s a low-commitment behavior
This benefit is mainly for guys. Playing ambiguous is much less costly than being in a relationship. It goes without saying that the economic cost, a clichéd compliment, an intentional hug, can make the other person’s heart grow fonder for a long time. At the same time, you don’t have to drive your girlfriend from work every day, which naturally saves you a lot of time to yourself. Since there is no established relationship, commitment can be saved as well.
Gets high returns
A fling can bring a ripple of interest to a flat as water tedious life. At the same time, when you are out of the ambiguous period, girls can always make some excessive demands, and guys usually don’t hesitate to agree to you because they want to make you his possession eagerly. At the same time, you can have more time to get to know the guy more and test whether he is the right man for you.
It’s more aesthetic than hot love
The ambiguous period is the precursor to falling in love and the most romantic and aesthetic period. Any relationship becomes less aesthetically pleasing once it becomes associated with commitment and finances. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Both sides don’t have to be responsible
When you’re in a fling with a guy, you’re not as close as lovers, but you can go to the movies and go shopping together like lovers. And it’s the lack of the shackles of a status like boyfriend and girlfriend that allows you to do whatever you want and leave in style when it doesn’t feel right, without any burden because you don’t have to answer to anyone.