There are many people who believe that a heterosexual confidant is a potential cheating partner, or simply a spare tire. There are also people who justifiably retort that I’m clean with him, so why say so? Where is the line between a male best friend and a spare tire?
What is a male BFF
BFF, a female close The reason why it is called a close friend is that it is definitely related to a woman. The reason why it is called a secret is that it must be related to secrets, and many issues that are difficult to talk about and shy to discuss with others can be told to him.
Girlfriends are generally synonymous with girls, but now as society progresses, more and more girls are imposing this synonym on boys. The “best thing about it? I personally think it is the kind of girls and talk about everything, talk about righteousness, women treat them as their “opposite sex confidant”, when they have grievances can find them to talk, when they have emotional worries can find them to talk, even in preparation for the first date with a new boyfriend to find them to learn from; they can also have each other They can also have mutual partners of the opposite sex, and their partners of the opposite sex know about their relationship, but are never jealous.
BFFs are most likely the people you’ve discussed the most about things like sex and physiology with. Therefore, BFF is generally an exclusive synonym for girls, and now with the progress of society, more and more girls are imposing this synonym on boys. Male bosom friend, refers to a woman’s good, no-nonsense male friend. There are also different opinions —- media interpreting the term “male best friend”: to put it bluntly, it is a sexual partner outside of marriage.
Say to your male BFF: Why you’re her backup
Do you Do you feel like she trusts you? Do you feel like you’ve found the value of your existence? Is it because she thinks of you when she is distressed and lonely, and feels especially happy? The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Sorry, you’re on the wrong track! Maybe I should congratulate you, because you do have a place in her heart, but unfortunately, that place is stored in the wrong place! You think you have hopes of being her boyfriend, but you’ve actually been her sister, more than a relative! Would a normal person get involved with their loved ones? Of course not! Yes, she wouldn’t either!
Must admit, your role is still important at times like this, in this moment, you are simply not a spare tire, you have been sublimated into a …… tire repair tool! Yes, without your presence like this, maybe that official tire will really not work, she must get a new tire, but now you are here, thanks to you, she vented her discontent, pain and depression, calmed down, and then can go back with a smiling face and open-mindedness to continue to be with her boyfriend and I. The patched tire is not as good as a new tire, but at least it can be used.
Of course, there are times when the tire repair tool doesn’t work, usually when that tire is so worn out that it loses its repair value, and even the tire repair tool doesn’t work anymore. Continue to watch from the side – you ask why not you on the top? How fresh, you have become a tire repair tool, right? Who would use a tire repair tool as a tire? You can’t tell the difference between the roles, but people can tell the difference!
You hung on to the ass of the car of your own free will – yes, that’s important, she never forced you, you were theoretically completely free, so she ignored you with Justifiably so!
Remember that the vast majority of spare tires – and I’m talking about the kind that hang on cars – only have a four-year spare period. After four years, even if you haven’t used it, you need to change it.
And those few that are lucky enough to be used generally have only one short use, after which they need to be replaced with a full tire. That’s right, a spare tire can never become an official tire.
Do you think you’d have a better fate as a human as a spare tire than these rubber circles? Why are there so many people who work so hard to help people fulfill all their boyfriend obligations and don’t ask for anything in return? Has society become so morally superior that this is the case, or is it – you’re just fooling yourself?
What does an eligible male best friend look like?
No romantic feelings for her. The woman is looking for a male best friend, definitely not hoping to fall in love with him, on marriage, in their eyes, the best friend is just a harbor to confide in when hurt, a tool to have fun when bored, and an additional option to share when happy.
If a man with a crooked mind takes the opportunity of so much contact and does something to a woman that he shouldn’t, then I think the woman’s original love will break down completely. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Have your own opinion about things. A woman looking for her best friend to confide in, is definitely expected to be able to get the best friend’s enlightenment, and if their best friend does not have a unique idea, just a one-sided agreement with the woman’s point of view, the answer is only a simple so a few words, I think this woman confide in a few sentences do not want to confide in, why? Because there is no point ah, say or not say nothing, so it is better to save some breath not to say. So a qualified bosom friend is to have their own unique ideas, and can boast about it, so that women feel to see the sun. Find a woman to talk to and get answers that are similar to your own thoughts, while find a man with a unique mind to talk to and you’ll get a different answer.
Be her mood bin. Sometimes when a woman is troubled, she wants to find someone to scold, scold her husband or boyfriend at home, and they will usually retort, or even strike out to beat the woman. A qualified male best friend, must endure the woman sometimes abuse, to do a “gas cylinder”, but also to accept the woman’s slight “whack”, in fact, this “whack” is
They are the so-called pampering.
They don’t take advantage of the situation, and they don’t have to be afraid of being taken away. Women think they are gentle and reliable, both to understand men and women, and willing to listen to women confide in them. But, this could also be a misunderstanding. Because people’s selfishness cannot be denied. Men and women become bosom buddies sometimes is a mutual need to relieve loneliness, but deliberately blurring the identity is not practical, and does not exclude some people use this to hide their good feelings for each other. The motivation can be complex and is not necessarily as simple as some people think.
Would you say there is no simple friendship between men and women? This is hard to say. But from the point of view of a male BFF, don’t have a liking for this woman to be a qualified BFF. If you expect to become her boyfriend one day, it is a spare tire, of course, the premise to her also see so. This is the difference between a bestie and a backup.