Humor, like honesty, has never been a luxury in China – rare and precious.
Humor is a luxury
On the one hand, this is determined by the natural properties of laughter. There is nothing that makes you laugh except the person themselves. A bowl of onions can bring tears to your eyes, but there is no vegetable that can make a person laugh. As for the object of your ridicule, it is not actually funny in itself.
See that laughter, like beauty, is a metaphysical thing, and both belong to the realm of aesthetics. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see it. Perhaps it will take hundreds of years and tens of thousands of miles before there is another person who is across the riverbank of time and space from him, moaning and smiling at each other.”
On the other hand, there are more and more people who can laugh out loud, but fewer and fewer people who are funny. In other words, while the internet has accelerated the delivery of information, it has also turned the vast majority of people from joke creators into joke carriers, and there are even fewer people who are actually funny. You can naturally come to this conclusion by comparing the number of posts and hits on YouTube.
But no matter how valuable and hard-won laughter is, it is definitely less important in some specific situations. Even, in some people’s opinion, it is absolutely harmful, for example, in bed.
According to one study, 81% of women have laughed out loud during lovemaking; for men, the percentage is 51%.
This can’t help but be a rather embarrassing phenomenon for men. While men are working as hard as ever toward the goal of getting women to float, float to the clouds, and not know where they are, women are turning men’s dreams upside down with laughter.
The reason for the laughing bed
Women and men are so distracted by this sport that the picture in their minds is far from the physical action. The woman is definitely not in a state of unconsciousness and ethereality during sex as men think, as pornography shows, or as adult novels describe, because she can’t stand the stimulation.
What’s on a woman’s mind could be a grease stain on the sheets, the electricity bill to be paid tomorrow or her son’s kindergarten plans. In any case, if you did figure out what was on your girlfriend’s mind, you’d be depressed to death. In other words, God knows what she’ll be laughing about! Even your posture, or just the fact that you’re cackling under her armpit, will make her laugh.
Too serious. Many men wishfully want their girlfriends to get into the groove with them, or into the groove his brain envisions. So being too serious transforms the game of love into a sort of role-playing RPG of redemption and redemption. And this kind of reverse string also tends to cause a kind of comic. One minute he’s being oily, and now he’s suddenly serious.
Seven things you may not know about the laughing bed
1. For every laugh a human has, about 80 muscles from the face to the abdomen are involved in the movement. If you laugh 100 times, the exercise for the blood circulation of the heart and lung function is equivalent to the exercise effect of rowing a boat for 10 minutes. However, it has to be said with regret that by the time we reach adulthood, each person can only laugh an average of 15 times a day, which is much less than the 400 times a day we laughed as children. This number is definitely a regrettable loss for our health.
2. Online psychologists at America Online say that laughing and having sex can both reduce stress, but having sex while laughing can be even more stress-relieving. Experts say that laughter and sex can make the brain release a large number of Andorphin (Endorphin), can resolve the stress, bringing ecstasy and ecstatic feeling of exhilaration. With a sense of humor to drive sex, a great help to mood. To add to that, Endorphin, the legendary pleasure drug, is something that can be used to treat depression.
3. AhlamFennou, a French sex therapist, believes that making love is a time for people to feel and share love with their whole being. However, people often forget to laugh at this moment. He says that people usually laugh only when they are with people who are similar to them and have the same physical senses. In this watery moment, there is neither dramatic conflict nor any stress, and people simply experience the moments of life in the simplest, most relaxed way.
4. According to surveys, 71% of men and women can’t help but laugh out loud when they try erotic sex for the first time. There is no excuse for this, after all, even the usually quirky girlfriend may suddenly change her cat eyes, or dress up in a queen’s outfit and hold a whip in her hand.
Then, at this time, do everything you can to hold it in as long as possible. You should know that the value of the existence of erotic paraphernalia is that it can help you create a new scene. Any sudden laughter can ruin that atmosphere, which could be one that she has crafted for a week straight. If that’s the case, do you think she should be angry?
5. If you or your girlfriend has a big loss in bed one time, you can report it with a relaxed mindset. It’s like the first time Chandler “doesn’t work” in “The Six” and Monica looks up and says, “It happens to all men, it’s no big deal.”
Yeah, it’s true that it’s not something that happens to any man, even though it looks like Monica should be the one who can’t enjoy the beauty of sex. But it’s a gesture on her part that doesn’t make Chandler feel any more inferior plus embarrassed.
6. If you or your girlfriend does laugh out loud, and does laugh out loud because the other person’s not working, then make sure you know how to take care of it too.
7. Of course, there are big and small cups. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. Not only did he lose his excitement, but he also lost his armor from then on, and could not get up again. The actual fact is that you can’t be able to get a good deal on your own.