Be the woman he can’t live without, be the woman who makes men dizzy, the woman who knows what she wants and knows the right time to express her needs. As a result, it often turns out that such women get what they want.
1. Understanding
A female stenographer, with a remarkable typing speed slow, and often wrong, but was not fired by her boss. One of the main reasons she was left behind was her extraordinary temper, like a joyful angel who could make the whole office “full of sunshine”. She was able to shield the entire office from all the whining, complaining, and blaming as long as she was there.
2. Companionship
One woman spent the first 16 years of her marriage busy taking care of her family, but she always felt that she was lacking. One day, she realized that she and her husband didn’t have any common hobbies. She realized that she had neglected to spend time with her husband. So, like her husband, she looked forward to every game; she also drew the game times on the TV newspaper. Soon, she and her husband were enjoying the games together, no longer sitting alone. She felt she had more and more to do in order to be with her husband.
3. Learn to listen
When a man is excited to talk, you sit quietly while he talks. You’re not “listening” when you sit quietly across from him while a man is talking excitedly. “Listening” is an active behavior, the meaning is interaction and communication. It is not disrespectful to interject from the sidelines from time to time, but to be ready to ask questions, especially valuable ones.
4. Adapt to his impulses
There was a man who loved to go on vacation. One afternoon, he called his wife, “Honey, please hurry up and pack your bags, we’re going on vacation to Bermuda tomorrow.” The clever wife immediately stuffed her pajamas into her suitcase; sent her pet parrot to a neighbor’s house to be boarded; and called friends and family to cancel various appointments. Early the next morning, the couple caught the early ferry to Bermuda together. Many men are willing to act on an idea as soon as it comes to them. So by adapting early to a man’s changing moods, or even impulses, you can steadily capture his heart.
5. Never give orders
Some strong women in the face of their beloved When men, often neglected that they are women, too busy to show their talents, can not resist giving orders to men, the result is regrettably lost good marriage. Until one day, when these women began to admit defeat, and some awakening, change the way of dealing with people, to “small women” posture for men to appreciate, and finally “to make things right”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
6. Be yourself
The basic principle of a mature life is “Be yourself.” Women who do not believe this and want to fascinate or conquer men by changing their appearance, such as using brand-name cosmetics, wearing brand-name fashions, changing fashionable hairstyles frequently, etc.. In fact, men are not that stupid, they do not evaluate the opposite sex based on their appearance. The most important thing is that you have to take off the “package” early and show your true self to men.
7. Don’t put yourself down
A woman who always thinks all men are the enemy, must consider herself a victim of the world, it will be difficult to establish friendship and intimate relationships with the opposite sex. Therefore, in order to build good relationships with the opposite sex, including husbands, one must first be proud of one’s female identity. Women need to joyfully accept their gender, because this acceptance is not only a healthy human attitude, but also a sign of a mature woman.