As the saying goes, “A girl can’t get a guy without a veil,” so how can a girl take the initiative and show her affection for a guy?
Call
Too hard: Have all his calls go to voicemail. And, even if you’re just home alone, turn up the stereo deafeningly before you call him back, deliberately creating the illusion that you have a very rich social life.
Being too nice: Call him at least once a day and tell him, “Just wanted to say hi.
Just right: If he doesn’t call back, don’t call him more than once. And keep the conversation short to keep his interest.
Invite
Too hard: As long as he hasn’t asked 3 days before, turn him down and don’t agree to go out with him even if he only got tickets to tomorrow night’s concert on short notice.
Too well behaved: let him know you’re free every weekend.
Just right: Only occasionally say yes to an impromptu invitation to spend the night together.
Fish and water
Too difficult: You won’t kiss him on the first few dates, even though you crave his body so much inside.
Too well behaved: sleep with him on the first date. Doing so will make him think you’re just a one-night stand.
Just right: Although there’s no standard answer to the question “How many dates should I go to bed with?”, you’ll wait until you feel like you’re in a “serious” relationship so you don’t end up as his fuck buddy.
Dating
Too hard: insist on answering all calls and texts immediately, even when he’s talking to you.
Too good: Suggest the “most romantic” restaurant recommended online.
Just right: Compliment him on his wine selection and let him know how much you liked his food.
Party
Too hard: Talk to men all night and prove you’re a hot commodity.
Too well behaved: follow him around like a little maid.
Just right: If almost everyone at the party is your friend, you’ll introduce him to your friends and keep an eye on him from time to time to see if he’s having a good time. If it’s almost all his friends around, you’ll be friends with that group, but still keep some space.