There will inevitably be friction between two couples living together, plus the pressure of work, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, parent-child relationships “pushing”, when couples quarrel inevitably. It is not terrible to quarrel with a couple, but it is terrible to quarrel with the more crack can not be undone. The following is a look at how couples can reconcile as soon as possible after a fight.
Tracing the roots
It’s normal for couples to fight with each other If you want to have a harmonious life as a couple, you have to avoid collision and if there is a conflict, you have to find the source of the dispute. Deal with it early, get mutual understanding and trust, there is no big problem. If the conflict will be intensified, know how to avoid it, when your emotional index back up, and then the old story, this time you feel then is really good boring and unreasonable.
Give each other space
If you’re done arguing. It is best that one of the two people can go to the street to skate, can go to the park, or climb a mountain, it is best not to stay in the same space, because after the quarrel the emotions of both sides can not immediately calm down, if this time see each other in this space, doing other things, will certainly be more angry, this is to see things, so it is best that one person choose to leave the house for a while, never in a The best thing is for one person to choose to leave the house for a while, never in a space, so that everyone can calm down for a while.
Acknowledge your mistakes
As a man, whether it’s a big deal or a small deal, whether it’s because of your own fault or not.
Find the right time to resolve the conflict
After a fight between two people If you are feeling angry or resentful, choose a quiet moment to talk to someone who is at ease, or just calmly communicate with your partner. In short, it must be clarified and resolved. A relationship with accumulated misunderstandings and resentments is definitely not a good partnership.
Get over it as soon as possible
After a fight, two people are angry for at most one The next day the two people are still harmonious and happy. The actual couple quarrel is generally a moment of anger, not to be taken seriously, the couple is equal reciprocity do not be afraid to lose face, because you face is your lover, to be able to bend can stretch, especially the man, to know humor to coax the wife.