Romance is essential in both relationships and marriages, so what makes romance so appealing? How about the ability to have each other by heart? Today, we will introduce those things about romance in detail. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want.
So how does romance come about?
Fantasy fuels romance
Fantasy fuels romance
indent:2em;text-align:left;”>To some extent love is blind. Overwhelmed by passion, lovers tend to idealize the object of their love, weakening or ignoring the messages that make them hesitant to move forward. One study found that men who have little in common with a woman are not attracted to her until they actually meet her. However, if they have a brief relationship, the man will overlook their incompatibility and consider her the ideal partner. Imaginations, hopes and flashes of fantasy can make someone very different from us attractive, at least temporarily. The problem, of course, is that fantasies can wane with time and experience. Idealized praise for a partner fuels romance, which can wane when people start living together and reality creeps in.
The mere novelty itself adds excitement and energy to a new occurrence of love
The first kiss is often more jarring than the thousands that follow, and when people are aroused and enthralled by a new partner, they don’t realize how familiar and habitual that same partner will be 30 years later. Indeed, novelty can be sexually arousing in other species as well. Does novelty have a similar effect on people? It probably does. Engaging in novel, sexually arousing activities together can make romantic partners feel more in love with each other. When in a relationship, everything is new, intimacy is growing, and passion may be at a high point. However, once the relationship is established and the novelty is lost, the passion fades.
Arousal wanes over time
As we’ve seen, physical displays of excitement – such as a racing pulse and rapid breathing – undoubtedly reinforce passion. But it can’t stay aroused forever! So even if your partner is able to excite you as much as ever (which is actually impossible), you won’t feel it just as strongly. In any case, passion can change faster than intimacy and commitment, which means romantic love can change too.
How should a girl act to make that love romantic, whether in a relationship or in a marriage?
Show your charm and make each other happy
When in love, we always try to please each other in every way possible. When we are in love, we always try to please our lovers by all means, hoping to make them like us, so we do everything we can to show our own merits and charms. Oncemarried, we let go of this positive motivation. For example, when being in love, every time dating span>dressed up a bit, but after the wedding, they started to be unkempt; before the wedding, they drove their girlfriends to and from work every day, but after the wedding, they just want to sleep at home …… Please try to show their strengths at that time with the positive mindset when they were in love, and you will find You will find that running a happymarriageisn’t actually carefully arranged spending time together. When we were in love, we looked forward to every date and did our homework in advance, planning and arranging them carefully, hoping to make every time together a beautiful memory in our hearts. The actual fact is that you will not be able to see each other every day, so “dating” has become a thing of the past. In fact, if you increase your dating time after marriage, your love will last longer!
Don’t forget the initial touch
When you’re just dating, the smallest thing he does to you can make your heart flutter and make you smile shyly while saying thank you. When sending a text message, exhaustive thoughts, choose the sweetest words, and will certainly be followed by a smiley face or peach heart. When the other person is a little unhappy or sick, he or she will always be by his or her side. All that is done is to see the other person’s smiling face. When two people have finally gone through the ordeal and finally come to fruition, but let people do not feel the same kind of happiness and warmth, this is why? The reason for this is that time has turned everything into a habit, you have forgotten the initial feeling, thinking that the two people are old married, they do not need so much red tape. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Nothing wrong with a kiss on the cheek
Gently press your lips on each other’s cheek or forehead with a shallow kiss, it’s the easiest! It’s even easier than trying to kiss each other on the lips! But if you’re a Gorgonite kisser, you can make this little move even more provocative; when your lips are lightly reflected on each other’s cheeks, gently spit out a small tip of your tongue to lick and draw each other’s cheeks without showing any traces, slowly move to kiss each other, and then move gently to where you really want to kiss, and pay attention to the lips not to leave each other’s skin!
Sensory sensitivity, good at feeling happiness
In love Have you ever had the experience of watching the sunrise together hand in hand and feeling incredibly romantic; going on a date at a restaurant with an elegant environment and getting excited …… in love, we tend to be very emotional, and even the smallest things will be captured by our The keen sensibility captures instantly, and so breeds an unusually sweet sense of happiness.
Say “I love you” out loud
emotionalretarded and create a romantic atmosphere. Men are also eager to hear “I love you”, so think about how long it’s been since you’ve had such sweet words between you, and I’m sure the man will blush shyly when he hears those long-lost words and reminisce about your first days. The first thing you should be aware of is not to keep asking men “do you like me” or “do you love me”, as many times as possible, men will find you annoying and start to ignore your love.
Keep yourself moderately tense
After dating for a long time, you may become like air in the other person’s eyes. So in order to make hand holding not like your own left hand touching your right hand, a moderate amount of tension is very necessary. Even in your own home, do not be disheveled, unkempt, not to say that you have to dress up very formal, but also to present their charm, so that they do not end up with a yellow face. In this regard, Japanese girls can be the ultimate, they will never let their makeup look seen by men, never face on the street, is to maintain their perfect image. But then there will be sisters complaining, so is not too tired to live, remember S once said a very classic words, there is no ugly woman only lazy women, and to dress themselves in a beautiful spirit, not necessarily to please men, but to please themselves, as we advocate, their own appreciation of themselves, through self-affirmation, you will become more and more confident, become more and more charming. The most important thing is that you will be able to get the right amount of tension for everything, which will give you a lot of unexpected benefits.