Three years of pain, seven years of itch” is something that every couple has to go through, and those who can’t survive it break up, and those who can survive it become a couple. How to keep the freshness of the relationship is also a secret thing. Tell then exactly how to keep fresh in a relationship, so that you are more confident in your relationship? Take a look at it together.
It’s okay to find a few pranks with ulterior motives
When you like When you like someone, the first thing you think about is how to communicate your thoughts to them. But that’s not the right idea. The more important question than that is how to make yourself stand out from the crowd. Stand out. Here, just having gentleness does not necessarily make you stand out. The most important thing is that you have to make up your mind to be special in his heart. One effective way to do this is to play pranks on the people you love. It’s like the little boy in elementary school who likes a girl in his heart, but loves to do things that outwardly bully her, and then ends up being best friends. Of course, when the prank, not to do the principle of his future things, but should be in some non-principle issues on purpose to make each other look bad. For example, the work requested by the other party deliberately delayed for a period of time; to other people are friendly to each other, only to him ignored. In this way, you will attract his attention to you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A deliberate fall
This method is tried and true. It’s a great way to get closer to each other, but you have to be safe! For example, if you are going on a trip together, or climbing a mountain, and you slip or fall on purpose, not far from him, you are bound to get his attention; and with your pathetic look, he is bound to run to you quickly. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Another thing is that if you have too many female companions, you should try to be different around him. This is the mentality of female companions who are in pursuit of the same guy.
The same guy.
Get a “panicked” look
Get a “panicked” look
Get a “panicked” look
indent:2em;text-align:left;”>If you’re on a trip and you pass by a cold drink store, you’ll always need a couple of cold drinks to get rid of the heat. You may take this opportunity to launch an attack. You first watched his every move, frequently to him to transmit “telepathy”. A moment, he will notice your eyes. The moment your eyes meet, you immediately lower your head, or turn your face away, showing a “lost” look, just like in the movies, is guaranteed to fascinate him, or at the very least, to get his attention and leisure time to think about. The “telepathy” you send is bound to strike a chord in the other person’s heart. Some people call this “telepathy”. What people have passed through, is not necessarily there? Scientists have not yet paid attention to this issue, psychologists seem to have admitted. Whether it must exist or not is not an important question, and we won’t explore it here. What is important is to grasp the moment when he notices you. Don’t be sullen for long, you should find a way to talk and move from being overwhelmed to looking as if nothing is wrong. The key is to be generous and brave.
Make yourself weak appropriately
There was a girl who was a good swimmer, but she pretended she couldn’t swim in general and said to her boyfriend, “Although I like to swim with the waves, I still seem to be quite scared when I go swimming alone.” When her boyfriend swam with her, a big wave hit her and she drifted off into the distance, creating the appearance of being submerged by the wave. The man was so nervous that he hurriedly swam over to her to “rescue” her, only to find out that it was a “trick”, she would swim it! But in the process, their feelings deepened invisibly. Girls in first lovemight want to follow this girl’s example and seek out men’s “protection” as appropriate.
Surprises should come from time to time
Boys and girls have that hazy feeling inside of them
. The girl has that hazy yearning within her heart, and invariably wants to get each other’s attention. If your first relationship with him is successful, then you should continue to look for opportunities to enhance your friendship. It is definitely a trick to woo your boyfriend by creating a surprise or two for him. “Hey! I knew you were no less than a chess saint, you played a great game of Go yesterday!” He must have been shocked to hear that. Thinking, “How did you know that?” Then you talk about a few of his previous Go tournaments, giving sincere compliments.
Intimacy matters most
Scientists have confirmed that hugging can reduce people’s anxiety and can increase our happiness levels. Physical contact not only brings warmth to the body, but also calms the restless emotions. If you’re not in a long-distance relationship, holding hands, hugging and kissing are the most direct ways to keep a relationship together!
Fill your life with more patterns
The same way that a static life can kill a person’s passion, a stereotypical boring life can also diminish the spark and passion between two people. Stop eating at the same restaurants and going to the same places for dates (or even just staying at home) and find more places that are suitable for couples to go on dates (or ask him to help you arrange different trips by being pampered). If your life is too busy to go through the trouble of arranging a trip every now and then, start with three meals! It’s a good idea to schedule a breakfast or lunch date every once in a while to spice up your busy life.
Keep your curiosity alive
Every day is a new challenge, and of course your significant other is too. Try to discover different kinds of him, him at work, him at play, him with friends, him with you, and him when he is doing all his favorite leisure activities, everyone has different faces in different occasions and behaviors, and the same goes for you. It is because of these variations that you make yourself unique!
Following life’s changes
When in a relationship, the relationship is bound to progress with each day. The best way to deal with a relationship is to do your best, but also to take it as it comes. The best way to deal with a relationship is to accept and face every change, and to be ready to face and respond to all the changes that come with it. Remember, no matter what, don’t lose yourself.
Amplify strengths and ignore weaknesses
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. The first thing you need to do is to get together for a long time, and the advantages that were attractive at first can gradually lose their attractiveness in each other’s eyes, or even be taken for granted. At the same time, we may be more focused on each other’s flaws, which leads to alienation and arguments between the two. Hey, think about why you fell in love with him in the first place! This is not to tell you to completely ignore his flaws, they can be worked on together, but don’t ignore each other’s strengths points either.
Trust each other
Two people have to do truly trust each other may not be easy for many people. Then you need to look carefully to find out what kind of reason it is, whether one of you is not doing a good job, or your own inner turmoil is at work. After finding the reason, actively seek ways to solve it. When one partner can’t really trust the other, it’s often easy to get caught up in the little things that can affect the relationshipbetween the two.
Understand each other
Even with how Even if two people love each other, they are still two separate people, they still have their own lives and jobs, and it is important to respect and understand each other. The result is that the other person feels angry and bored, and your unhappiness will not go away, so to speak, “both sides lose”, why bother?
Learn to be tolerant
No one is perfect, and people will always have flaws. The first thing you need to do is to be able to take a look at the situation and see what you can do. The first thing you need to do is to accept each other’s shortcomings and admit and accept that they are the same.
Focus on yourself in time
Some people, in the middle of a relationship, just Only see each other, the heart only think of everything related to each other, such as, ta is doing what, ta this problem how just can not change it, I should send ta what gift it …… such people have forgotten to pay attention to some of themselves. When I say pay attention to yourself, I mean, on the one hand, need to know more about yourself, you yourself will have some small problems, you yourself also need to adjust, rather than just dwell on each other’s problems; on the other hand, it means that you need to have your own life, have your own time, in the relationship, still learn to be independent, rather than completely dependent on each other.
The right defense for two people in a relationship
Relationships sometimes come and go erratically, so what is the indirect cause of a failed relationship, that is, not taking defensive measures. A good relationship must be preceded by a sense of defense. Once the relationship will be destroyed, this awareness becomes a reality, to do battle with the outside world, the stronger your sense of defense, the stronger the relationship resilience. If you are in a state of being disappointed in your relationship, then this is the time to start defending your love, not to let yourself be disappointed and disillusioned with yourself, but to be strong, to be another, better version of yourself, to live your pride, to make those who have disappointed you look the other way, to what it doemotionallyto the point of regret and begging for forgiveness. That’s the high profile of a woman. And for men, if your wife has let you down, you’d better reflect on what led to such an outcome, and whether you cared too little or had some misunderstanding, and then resolve to figure out what to do, not to jump to conclusions blindly, impulsiveness is the devil.