At the beginning of a relationship and after a certain period of time in a relationship, lovers will find that the two people don’t have the same kind of talk and talklessness that they used to have. In fact, the relationship will have a period of depression or embarrassment, if the two people handle it properly, then the relationship will be closer to each other, but if not handled well is likely to break up into the road. So if you are in a relationship awkward period in the end how to do it? Nine relationship tips to get you through the awkward period.
1. Melt the TA with small warm gestures
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If you like this girl, you must pay more attention to each other’s diet and living, work and study and other aspects of change, if you find that the other party is more tired, remember to give more verbal comfort and understanding, if you have the opportunity to go to her to make some delicious food, so that she can replenish the body or something, such care will be very warm, and can quickly improve the relationship between each other.
2. Keep enriching yourself
If you can find the time to watch the news and read newspapers and magazines, you’ll have more topics to talk about in your head. Keep yourself abreast of current events and pay attention to funny comedy video clips, or popular segments on the internet, etc.
3. Keep it private
Couples are always stuck to each other together, from morning to evening. Even, the body also goes out to dash. This is nothing for a short time, but not for a long time. Because, each other’s private space all are not. The advantages of the other person you clear up, but. The other party’s flaws you also know ah, always facing each other night and day may also make the other party see you feel distracted, it may be time to step back and let the other party have time to do their own thing
4, attention to detail
Sometimes what defeats love is never something amazing love is often the smallest thing that chickens are made of, and this is something that guys pay particular attention to: your gradually speaking impatient tone. You hang up the phone faster and faster, you return the slower and slower text messages. From the old send each other good night before bed, to I’m asleep.
These are the causes of sudden death in love. These are the small details that are easy to overlook and end up in a very, very small thing that shatters your love. We are all past the age of hearing love in our ears, and uncompromising care is the true life of the plain and simple.
5. Share the funny things about life
One’s life is not always It’s not always thrilling or enjoyable, but it can’t always be boring either. Whenever you come across something fun and funny, you can share it with your boy/girlfriend. This way you don’t actually need to spend a long time to keep a communication with TA, and TA will have the illusion of keeping in touch with you for a long time, because TA knows all the interesting things in your life.
6. Make little surprises
When a sense of loss arises, such as Feeling left out or something, silent sadness is useless, why not try to make some small efforts, such as surprising him by cooking him something delicious, feelings are also mutual, and positive emotions will infect each other.
7. Talk to each other when you meet things
No matter what you meet You can talk to your partner about anything, aggravation, sadness, fear, and let him share your worries and your joy. Don’t close yourself off and make the other person feel like they can’t do anything for you and therefore feel useless, and don’t make the other person feel like you don’t trust him and don’t tell him a lot of things.
8. Meaningful days must be spent together
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Wedding anniversary, Valentine’s Day, birthday, how many days we’ve been in love, all of these can be commemorated with each other, and then open your heart and talk to each other the most sincere words, which can enhance the sweetness of the relationship.
9. Understand your lover’s flaws and shortcomings
We need to know No one is perfect, no gold is perfect. The fact that everyone has one or more flaws is a result of the education and environment they have received since childhood, and it is unavoidable. In addition, we can not guarantee ourselves 100% perfect premise, and what qualifications to ask each other’s perfection. As long as the other party’s shortcomings are not confused with the big right and wrong, harmless shortcomings can be forgiven and even accepted. After all, to love someone is to accept all of him, and those flaws are part of him.