In fact, it is the true color that determines whether a man is kind, or righteous, or gentle and considerate, or cruel, or twisted, or selfish, or violent, etc. The same way few people can tell the difference between firewood and pearwood, not many women can tell a man’s true colors.
The heart of the conversation when women come together is always about men! We also felt that this should not be the case, so we agreed among ourselves that we would not talk about men in the future. But as we began to implement this decision, for the first time in the history of our women’s gatherings, there was a lull and no one spoke.
We were all racking our brains for something that wasn’t about men, when we realized that we didn’t know what we were going to talk about except men. We are supposed to be very ordinary women, and the most important part of our lives is men, and not talking about men is shutting us up.
But luckily, it also made us understand that men are not the ones we reject, and even though we often talk about a thousand things that are wrong with men, and even hate them to the bone some of the time, we can’t live without them, they are the most important, and maybe even, really, the whole point of our lives.
Women fall in love with a man mostly because of his upper body, that is, the outside. That is the appearance that gives a person the appearance of a life, social status, etc. It is easy to understand the appearance of a man, sometimes a business card can tell the story clearly. Or a bank book. A careful woman will also pay attention to details such as what brand of suit, what school the diploma is from, what type of car, how many square meters the house has, etc.
When a woman is dependent on a man, it is usually because of the lower half of the man’s body, that is, his essence. The actual fact is that the actual person’s own quality, the cultivation. The actual fact is that the actual person is not a person, but a person is a person.
In fact, it is the true color that determines whether a man is kind, or righteous, or gentle and considerate, or cruel, or twisted, or selfish, or violent, etc. Just as there are few people who can tell the difference between firewood and pearwood, there are not many women who can tell a man’s true colors.
If true color is intrinsic, quality cultivation is determined by a man’s behavior toward other people. His speech, mannerisms, and behavior are all defined by a person’s quality and cultivation, including having sex. Once the ancient Chinese civilization taught women not to have sex with men until they were married. In fact, sex is the kind of thing that is “sexual in nature” and most indicative of a man’s true nature.
When a woman really falls in love with a man, she is actually impressed by his lower body, not his upper body. But most women have an innate sense of fear and helplessness about a man’s lower body, so often they show no interest in the exposure of a man’s lower body, and it’s enough to shift their attention to the decency of a man’s upper body.
The upper half of a man’s body and the lower half of his body are often not the same thing, meaning that the decency of the upper half of his body is not indicative of his essential goodness. A piece of firewood can be finely carved, but it’s still firewood. I thought that a man’s attraction to a woman is also at first the upper body, and later the attachment to the woman’s character.
Unlike men, women start out attracted to the upper half of a man’s body and come into the life of a couple with an attachment to the lower half. Women actually care about the lower half of a man’s body, which is the most fundamental thing. If the lower half of the body did not play, the upper half of the body is certainly not good to go. But why are there so many women suffering from the loneliness of sexlessness and silently guard the side of the man? That is just a perfect embodiment of the virtue in the bones of women.