The courtship is easy to break up, and most people want to get together and break up, but getting together and breaking up is not so easy to do, and if you’re not careful you’ll become separated from each other. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Take into account each other’s feelings
Speak always with each other’s standpoint. Even if you break up with the other person, they will still remember how good you were. Take the other party’s position as a starting point, try to propose a breakup without putting the other party in an awkward situation, and do not break up on special holidays and special circumstances, such as the other party’s birthday or public occasions. If you say break up when the other party’s birthday, then the other party will leave a psychological shadow, after each birthday the other party will remember the experience of being dumped, then they will definitely hate you for life. If in public, such as in front of each other’s friends and colleagues, that is something that makes each other very humiliated. Maybe it’s not the breakup itself that people are angry about, but the way you broke up that made it so hard to get down.
Don’t be mean
Don’t talk about what you know about each other just because you have a grievance against them. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Split clean
Don’t try to find out if he “Isn’t there a little more love for yourself?” You will most likely find the vestiges of this love, which will make you wait for the pampered fluke; and do not try to find him “is not happy to live away from me?” You must find his unhappiness, just as you can find anyone’s unhappiness, which will give you the fluke that he will eventually return to the prodigal son. Flukes make people old, and people get older and more flukes.
Mention the breakup in person
Mention the breakup in person
The face-to-face communication style can provide a soothing function. There are many nonverbal cues we can experience from it that let us know we are actually still worthy of love, such as patting the person on the arm and saying you are still a wonderful person. Any way of breaking up outside of face-to-face means, “You’re insignificant.” Some people think that breaking up is too ugly and that sending an email, text message or even leaving a message on a social media site will be less cruel than mentioning the breakup in person. But this mode of sending remotely can actually leave the other person psychologically traumatized – when you don’t get any explanation, you spend a lot of time thinking about what you actually did wrong, and these hard thoughts can cause depression. According to John Cacioppo, a neuroscientist at the University of Chicago, the lack of direct contact makes the loss of a relationship especially painful. This can likewise create barriers to future relationships for the other person, preventing them from committing to new relationships.
Rejecting cold violence
Many people think Just hang the other person out to dry for a while, and then when their feelings are irretrievable, then they or the other person will break up and everything will be fine. But cold violence is also violence, it is a kind of mental abuse of people. And cold violence only makes breakups drag out, wasting each other’s time and energy while also leaving an unpleasant impression on the other person’s mind.