Some guys find it hard to fall in love, so in love, they try to please each other, their love is humble, without any dignity.
Recently, some people shared their experience of long-distance relationship, saving money to “go see their girlfriends for New Year’s Eve” and eating only one lunch a day, different flavors of instant noodles, or rice with everything mixed.
Many netizens said they were “heartbroken”;
others said, “This is quite normal.
They’re not the only ones who are in love.
Some people pointed out, “This is too embarrassing, men still need to make money when they fall in love.” .
I also noticed that one girl said, “I wish I could meet a guy who could do that for her,” and then met her boyfriend in the comments section.
You must be annoyed to see this. “Wouldn’t a girl really want to prove that her boyfriend loves her by ‘making him suffer’?””
Friends who have questions like this have never fallen in love at first sight.
What is “love” without dignity?
One of the biggest headaches many guys have when chasing a girl is that she always gives you the illusion that “you can get her if you try harder”.
Whenever you get close to the goal she has set, she moves the end point away.
So you lose the initiative in the relationship and start following the other person’s lead. Psychologically speaking, it’s easy to develop a likable personality.
After all, she is too perfect in your eyes for others to say no. All your emotional needs are pinned on her, and you’re used to this harmful way of getting along.
“Dignity” is weak and has a lot to do with the family we come from.
Some people have been questioned and attacked so much growing up that they have developed a deep psychological shadow and don’t believe they deserve to be loved.
They often say to themselves, “If I don’t please and cater to others, no one will love me.” As adults, they give too much of their dignity to achieve what little their hearts desire.
These are the damages caused by the loss of dignity.
Going back to the guy who saved money for the girl, if this girl is a good girl and knows how to value what she gave, then I wish you well and hope you will love yourself more in the future.
But if one day you find out that the girl has been asking you to do this and that just to show others, “Look, this is my boyfriend. Eating a bowl of bubble face every day is good for me!”
Don’t be so angry that you don’t even have the courage to add a gut to the instant noodle bucket. “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.