A girl once asked her mother, “In marriage, how should I grasp my own happiness?” The mother did not say anything, but found a handful of sand in front of her daughter. The mother didn’t say anything, she just found a handful of sand and handed it to her daughter, who watched the handful of sand in her mother’s hand without losing a bit of it, and then the mother began to hold the sand tightly, and the sand slipped from her fingers, the tighter the grip, the more it fell, and when the mother stretched her hand out again, there was very little sand left.
The tighter you hold the sand in your hand, the faster it passes, and the same is true for couples. The more you try to hold on to the sand, the more it falls apart, and the more you try to break free, the deeper you fall, and the more you let each other have a free space to make your married life more satisfying.
In real life, many lovers develop from the initial infatuation to later indifference, confusion and even divorce, often as the two sides continue to familiarize themselves with the “psychological distance” between the two because of curiosity, mystery and performance gradually disappeared, resulting in a crisis of feelings. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This is just like you appreciate a painting, when you are too close to the painting, often look less like a painting, too far away and can not see, only not far not close, just right, to see the “effect”, this is the distance to produce beautiful.
Both sides of the relationship should maintain an appropriate sense of mystery. In general, a sense of mystery will keep the other person’s interest in exploring the answers to your personality and the many facets of your personality never waning. The first thing you need to do is to develop this sense of mystery, and both sides of the marriage should not only constantly improve their external characteristics, but also constantly improve their internal personality, enrich and update their knowledge, improve their quality in all aspects, and deepen their intellectual cultivation. Only in this way can you constantly present your lover with a positive, new side of yourself, and thus constantly attract each other. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
As the saying goes, “A small goodbye is better than a new marriage.” The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But the distance we are talking about here must be a good degree, otherwise it will also have a negative impact on both parties, as the skit says, “Distance is there, beauty is gone.