Love is a wonderful thing, it is possible for two people to erase the spark because of some insignificant little things, and it is also possible for some small details to cause two people to break up emotionally, it is not easy to maintain a harmonious and beautiful love!
Men and women get along actually have a lot of precautions and skills, for women, if you want to really grab a man’s heart, so that the other party will always be dead to you, then you must understand the psychology of the man, such as what he likes what does not like.
1, lazy, sloppy
There is a kind of woman, the appearance may The woman’s appearance may be gorgeous, even scented, but after you see her residence, you’ll be blown away. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The woman who is lazy and sloppy and does not know how to do housework at all is not a woman that men like.
2, vain and love to compare
“Husband, ****’s family got a big house again” “Husband, ****’s husband bought her a designer bag again” “Husband, **** got promoted again” …… this kind of vain love to compare the woman, only to make men bored with you. Imagine, which man will be willing to listen to you complain like this every day, which man will be willing to admit that he is inferior to others. A smart woman will only encourage men, not irritate them.
3. Look through call logs and text messages
When you hear a man’s The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Over time, men will become more and more repressed and finally explode.
4, complaining that he is too busy at work
Many women always complain The first thing you need to do is to make sure that your man is not capable of making money, but when he is working hard, you think he doesn’t love you anymore and doesn’t have time for you. This is a great way to get the most out of your life. In fact, as long as he is not out doing bad things, as long as he is really fighting for the family, then why can’t you be a gentle wife and give him a little more care and sympathy!
Experience of getting along with men:
1. Don’t often go The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
2. Don’t expand your rights without limits just because a man loves you, don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs and pursuits, don’t think you see further than a man, he must have some traits that you don’t understand.
3. Don’t be constantly late, don’t think that if a man loves you he should have unlimited patience, there is a limit to a man’s patience, and when the patience wears out, it’s time to wear out the love.
4. Don’t believe in the phrase “if you love me, you should know what I think”, which is a complete nonsense, no one will know exactly what the other person thinks. It is silly to conclude that a man doesn’t love you because he doesn’t know what you are thinking in time.
5. Don’t often ask men to go shopping with you, not many men really like shopping, the ultimate end of force is resistance. The exception is, of course, comrades like XXX, who like to shop.
6. What a man does for a girl in the heat of the moment, don’t expect him to keep it up later in life, smart girls usually take a 50% discount.
7. Don’t give him everything you can pour out to him because he is the closest person to you, your misfortune, pain, grievances and whining, make him an outlet, men are not junkyards, when he confirms he can’t change you, he has no choice but to run away.
8. Don’t try to change the man, don’t think he will become your ideal good man under your tutelage, it is wiser to adapt to him than to change him.
9. Don’t be overconfident in your own charm, not many men will always be able to afford to go back on their word, not many men can be recruited to come and go, unless, of course, the man has a motive for loving you.
10. Don’t grab a man’s one mistake and keep chattering quotes at every quarrel, no man likes such a woman.
11. Don’t use this line of thinking to guide your love – look for evidence in a man’s words and actions that he doesn’t love you. A man cannot focus his energy on a woman every moment of the day, and he cannot possibly notice every hint or displeasure from a woman. When you look for dust with a magnifying glass, you will always find it. In doing so, you are only instructing the man on how he does not love you.
12. When a man is thinking, try not to disturb him, he needs the pleasure of being alone sometimes, that doesn’t prove he doesn’t love you.
13. If a man is close to you, don’t just hurt his pride, whether in front of others or alone, hurt is hurt, whether he loves you or not.
14. Don’t be jealous of a man’s past relationships, and don’t force a man to tell you that you are better than any of his previous girlfriends, the truth is the truth.
15. Don’t compare your man with other men, don’t say he is not as romantic or considerate as others, every man is special and loves in different ways, often saying this will make love a mental burden.
16. Always keep a little mystery in front of your man, don’t reveal everything about yourself to him 100%. A man who is too full is going to hate food and not appreciate it.
17. Don’t expect to get a man with sex, it’s the least secure way to capture a man, because love has nothing to do with flesh.
18. Love is a magnet, not a rope, and it is better to bind him than to attract him. A rope will give a man the desire to break free, while a magnetic field will give him the illusion of freedom, and an eternal temptation.
19. Don’t expect a man to fall in love with you unconditionally and like a slave (that kind of man is not worth loving either). You want to act as a supreme queen in love, and eventually you will find that you will fall very hard.
20. Please weigh that if your love is one where you enjoy more rights and the other person has to do more obligations, then you need to try to change it. Love also fits the laws of economics and creates a mutual win-win situation that will last.