When you meet the wrong person, you have to “cut the Gordian knot”; when you meet the right person, you have to love and cherish it, don’t compare it with others, and don’t pay attention to what others think.
If a relationship is easy to maintain, with no accommodation, no force, and no pressure on each other, then the chances of it lasting are good; it is often as uneventful as drinking plain water. A pair of personalities, interests, hobbies, habits all closely integrated lovers, like meeting another self as joy; lightning marriage into the wedding hall is also a very natural result. The success rate of lightning marriages that last is also there, because they may be the right person for the job.
In contrast, even a couple that has been in love for years before getting married can still end up in divorce; because the length of time a couple has been together is not necessarily proportional to the maturity of the relationship. Love is not boiled brined eggs; eggs can be more brined the more fragrant, but the more you talk about the more you may turn back. But how long does a relationship take to mature? To “quality” to measure, or to “quantity” to calculate? I’m afraid no outsider can understand this, except for the people involved.
A relationship that takes a long time to work out can be exactly the kind of relationship that is “not right. The more the relationship is not right, the more time is needed to manage it.
Two people who are not right together for a long time will evolve into a feeling of “habit”; getting used to having him with them, getting used to arguing with him, getting used to his voice, getting used to his temper; “habit”, which wears off the thorns in each other’s personalities, also covers up the fact that they are not suitable for each other. The fact that they are not suitable for each other. This pattern, dragged out for a long time also somehow became “feelings”, became a self-deceiving “false love”. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
What is the “right” person? In the olden days, it was a matter of “right match”, but today there is no standard. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
However, it’s hard to have it both ways. A pair of partners who are both pursuing artistic ideals may not always be able to take care of the seven things in real life, and a pair of partners who are obsessed with money may not always be able to have a spiritual match. To be realistic or ideal? Individuals must have a scale in their hearts to objectively and accurately measure: to measure their own conditions and abilities in a secular perspective; to scale their own talents and heart in a sensual perspective. If one’s score in the worldly and sensual are of the highest quality, then one is qualified to “select” others; conversely, one must humbly and sincerely “pursue” others. The selection is analyzed from the perspective of the person at the top, while the pursuit is the attitude of the person at the bottom; there is no law to protect the relationship before marriage, so men and women in the world must be careful. People often say that “your honey may be his poison”. The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem.