When your best friend looks at your man, which side will you be on? Many women will be sad and angry, but have you thought about what the reason is? How do you prevent this kind of intimacy from joining forces to betray? Be straightforward with your words and actions and keep your BFF away from your man!
What would you do if you were the main character and encountered the following problem:
For example, one day, Sky gets a crying call from her best friend, something along the lines of: her best friend seems to be having an affair with her boyfriend, and she doesn’t know whether to pretend to ignore it or just break up with him.
Someone asked rhetorically, “Why break up with him? Maybe the blame is on your most trusted BFF.” Your best friend screams, “No way. She’s my BFF. Do you know what a best friend is? A best friend is a best friend who knows each other even better than they know themselves.” And then hung up resentfully.
But, I would say, why not? There is no such thing as impossible in this world. The reason why you can become a best friend is because you have the same hobbies, the same interests, the same habits and similar tastes, so what you see may not be what she will see. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
However, when problems arise, many women are quick to blame the man’s lack of willpower, without even thinking about the role their BFF plays in this, which is not desirable.
Girlfriends, please stay three meters away from my man:
< strong>One, two people 1 meter, love and friendship may not be preserved.
Many people always think of their girlfriends as their other selves. The first thing you should do is to tell her what you’re happy about, and if you’re sad, you’ll go to her for comfort, and naturally, you’ll share all your happiness and sadness with your best friend in the process of dating.
There is no doubt that when a person is whispering in your ear countless times, and the person who is whispering in your ear countless times is the same person, people will be curious, and this is a common problem for all people.
Maybe at first your bestie was not interested in him at all, just out of curiosity to pay attention to your boyfriend, and then after your daily mentions, curiosity turned into addiction, and a day without hearing from you would feel as if something was missing. Then gradually became interested in your boyfriend, which is what happens within a meter, too close for your own good.
Because you and your bestie have similar tastes and your bestie is interested in him, love meets friendship and naturally the only result is that your friendship is unbearable.
II. 2m for 2, testing their self-control.
Women are more vain and will always want to prove their own charm, and a large portion of them tend to do it from the side. So you can’t be too careless with your BFF.
There are no friends forever, women are fickle and no one knows what she is ready to do next. Don’t trust a person too much, know that even blood is thicker than water relatives may betray themselves at any time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Three, two people 3 meters, everyone in harmony.
For the person you decide to be with for the rest of your life, you should never let your BFF get too close. You can become a BFF, think because each other have experienced a lot of things, maybe cried, maybe made a scene, or maybe laughing together. So why not let your bestie go near your husband?
One is because women are born soft and can’t afford to betray, two is because BFF is the crystallization of a long time companionship, find one can chat with their own few and far between, three is the road to love will be the more sweet, the main thing for women is to find an important The main thing for women is to find an important belonging.
So it’s better to be a gentleman’s friend with your best friend. You can share your life, share your joy and sorrow, but never share your feelings. Three meters away, there will be your most heartfelt presence.
Want a friendship that won’t get stale? Then let’s shout out: my dear BFF, please stay three meters away from my man.
Action: How to keep BFFs away from your man
First of all. When dating your husband, don’t bring your best friend with you at all times. Some women have this kind of fun, think people are lively, always a large group of close sisters together to eat, drink and have fun, if these sisters have a crooked brain, if your husband’s mind moved, then it may turn into a family crisis! Smart women, not to be stupid!
Secondly, don’t always let your girlfriends take on the job of mediator for your family conflicts. When, Liu Jia Ling is also because for the bosom friend Zeng Hua Qian to convey the intention to pass feelings to frequently contact Tony Leung, but look at the subsequent ending, the bosom friend eventually became the main house, the real girlfriend has become yesterday’s yellow flower! You don’t have to think about it to know that a pair of men and women, frequent chats about heart, can not talk about the problem is strange! For the sake of your own family safety, or let your best friend stay away from your husband!
Lastly, don’t always mention your bestie endlessly in front of your husband. Whether it’s a good word or a bad word, a woman who regularly conveys to her husband another woman’s message, without fail, is deepening his sense of curiosity about her. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
Look around at those smart women who know how to harmonize the two camps at home and abroad properly, not always putting the topic of conversation on “husband”, not showing off their happiness in front of their girlfriends all day long, and not always on “husband”. The first thing you need to do is to show off your happiness in front of your girlfriends, not to mention the endless boasting about how great your husband is to prove that you are better than each other. …… When it comes to your other half, she will smile lightly: “It’s just an average man. There will be some minor problems too.”
BFFs are a woman’s lifelong playmate, someone to eat, drink and play with, someone to clothe, feed and house, someone she can offer advice to. But the point you need to know is that from the laws of the woman’s heart: pain can be shared, but happiness is often not shared. A woman in front of other women to sunshine happiness too much, will always cause each other’s jealousy. And a woman’s jealousy is the eternal bane!
Your own husband, keep a close eye on him, even if men have all kinds of fancy little thoughts, but remember: as a wife, at least, you do not create such favorable opportunities for him!
With the above analysis and action guide, you have a deep sense of the truth of the saying that distance can make everyone’s life better, right? Not all people need to be close, and not everything needs to be shared with someone close. The best friend and boyfriend/husband are both close to you, but half of how they relate to each other depends on how you handle it.