Men desire virginity, which they see as purity and fidelity to love. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The idea of “commodity women” is perhaps deeply rooted, and most of those who stand in the front line of the “moral position” shouting are men …… In fact, this is a matter of the women themselves, the most right to speak.
What is the most important thing?
Men’s judgment of virginity is only biological. The old calendar says that if you don’t fall in love on your wedding night, not only is your marriage unsustainable, but your right to live seems to be in serious trouble. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Thousands of years of tradition gradually formed the worship of the hymen? It is the most valuable gift a woman can give to her husband.
It is society’s emphasis on the hymen that makes women desperately try to hold on to this last line of defense. But now, after all, it’s the new millennium, and women can finally talk about themselves in a calm way. Look at the following descriptions of women themselves, both men and women, and shouldn’t they have a more sober understanding of the topic?
Ms. A: The highest level of love has to be expressed sexually
I don’t take the issue of virginity that seriously, how can I put it, it’s my own business, I just have to be responsible for my own actions, no one can blame me. At a certain stage in the development of love between two people, only sex can come to express. This is probably one of the reasons why people choose to get married.
Ms. B: Never have sex before marriage
Even if I love that person more, I will not have sex with him before marriage. If he breaks up with me because of it, I won’t regret it.
I thought that virginity was a guarantee of a long-lasting marriage, and that I would be humiliated if I lost my virginity before marriage. The first thing I did was to get to know my husband, who would love me more because I was a virgin when I married him. As for whether the person I marry is the one I love most this doesn’t matter much, as long as a solid family is enough, where’s the romance in that?
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Ms. C: I would be embarrassed to be a virgin
I would be embarrassed for a woman to be a virgin in her twenties. It means that there are few people who love her or that she is a bit abnormal herself. If you don’t have sexual experience before marriage, you may have all kinds of unexpected problems after marriage because of lack of sexual experience.
It is even more ridiculous if a woman is still proud of being a virgin when she reaches her thirties. That is a very abnormal life, and it is a woman’s right to enjoy sex.
Ms. D: It depends
People rarely fall in love all at once. One can’t love just one person in a lifetime either. If the man who gets my initial love is not my husband, well, it depends.
If he doesn’t care, that’s the best thing that could happen to me, and I can live my life easily. If he cares, and I have to marry him, then, sorry, what’s the big deal now that technology is so advanced? Don’t say I’m mean, it’s to satisfy a man’s needs. Besides, what will I use to prove him?
Ms. E: Chastity of the mind is better than chastity of the body
If a woman loses her chastity, people have no right to accuse her. Maybe it is a careless fault, maybe it is for true love. It is the purity of the heart that counts, and it is better for men not to be foolish.