1.To become a big tree, don’t fight with the grass; the general has a sword, not to cut down mole crickets.
If you have the ambition to be a great leader and are practicing it, and you encounter unfounded gossip and suppression, don’t easily deny yourself, look at the whole picture, which may be due to:
(1) Others are limited by their own perceptions and can’t read higher channels of thought.
(2) Others are jealous and want to drag others down with them.
(3) Others feel threatened and fear that you will take their place.
So there is no need to wade yourself into the muddy waters by dropping the frequency count.
2. Listen to both, think compatibly, put yourself in the shoes of others, and think in a different position.
As opposed to 1. If someone, who has something to shine about that they admire and has a valid point to make, then it is good to:
(1) Put yourself in the other person’s shoes and think about why they have that point of view.
(2) If you were to apply this to yourself, would it work because of the differences in starting points, timing, roles, and personalities?
Together with your own thinking, if you can do it, you can do it, but if you can’t, you can say thank you, so that you can broaden your thinking and add more possibilities to your life.
3. Have a framework, DoTalk, . All talk and no action, up in the air.
On paper, it’s not easy to know what to do.
But what you do is:
For your own enthusiasm;
It helps the cycle of positive energy to continue;
The future is promising;
Be prepared for the worst, even if you lose, you can rise again;
You are bold enough, you should put it into action, the big picture is often paved by each step of the conscientious effort.
4. Delayed gratification, compound interest thinking, accumulate small steps, set to a thousand miles.
(1) Prepare firewood on sunny days and rainy days, save money, add skills, and do not seek immediate gratification.
If there is wine today, there is nothing new under the sun, as Zhang Dai wrote for his own epitaph before he died:
“As a young fop, I love prosperity, good house, good maid, good molester, good fresh clothes, good food, good horses, good lanterns, good fireworks, good pear orchard, good drumming, good antiques, good flowers and birds, as well as to tea obscene orange abuse. Bookworm poetry devil, half a life of toil, all become a dream. At the age of fifty, the country broke up and the family died, avoiding the mountain residence. What survives is a broken bed, a broken few, a folded tripod, a sick piano, a few books, and a missing ink stone. I was often left without food and clothes. Looking back twenty years ago, it was like a lifetime ago. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see that it was a dream.
(2) Instead of looking at great victories in the distance, we should look at every progress in the near future.
But in all things, perseverance, not greedy to eat a bite into a fat, to see the accumulation of resources over time, as long as you continue to plow not to leave the field, previously accumulated experience resources contacts will be able to protect their own standing in a relatively solid invincible.
5. No delusions, Nostaring at scarcity, seeing what you have, andbeing content with what you have. Be happy with what you have.
Look at what you have instead of what you lack, and look for happiness and bottom line in the place of surplus you have, such as:
(1) stacking your existing network resources;
(2) using your existing strengths and skills to start a side business;
when you understand that all you have at the moment is what is best for you.
When you understand that what you have in the moment is what is best for you, you are better able to walk the earth with the ease of a four-by-four.
6. Win-win thinking, reduce jealousy, give and take, no give and take, < strong>no give and take.
(1) Working with people, above your own bottom line, you can make slight concessions so that others know that they will not lose out by working with you and will have more new opportunities to look forward to in the future.
(2) Negotiate with people, put yourself in each other’s shoes, see what this can and should bring to each other, and only then can you drive forward together on a firm foundation of mutual benefit and win-win.
(3) When people around you are good, you should not be jealous, but understand that energy exchange, magnetic fields attract each other, he is good you are good, everyone is good is really good.
When one has only oneself in one’s eyes, there is only the power of a single person, and when one has peers in one’s heart, there is the power of many.
7. Act right and sit straight, open and honest, not ignoring the goodheart, notleaving a tail. strong>leave a tail.
To go far and steady, people must be bright and honest, and the opposite is easy to climb faster and roll over faster, after all, you are in the light, the enemy is in the dark, and you will be in the limelight when you want to get up. Therefore, to ensure that their own words and actions at the moment to live up to the conscience of heaven and earth, and withstand the scrutiny of the crowd. It’s not about taking off quickly, it’s about landing steadily that wins.
8.Neverforget the beginning, to the beginning for the end, . The beginning is stillin, certainly there is a way back.
If you feel lost on your way forward, you may want to return to your original intention and see what you set out to do, such as to realize the value of life, to deliver positive energy, to benefit more people around you, so that you don’t go astray into gloom.
To share above, hopefully we can encourage each other.
Love you, Go