How do women find the right man for them, love is a matter of two people, but two people should also be inextricably linked, so a woman in choosing a man from which aspects to consider? Generally speaking, from a girl’s point of view think, men and women in the process of dating girls most taboo what? Girls and like how boys treat her? Here’s a look at it.
How exactly should a woman find the right one for her?
No very complicated family relationships
If, for example, he puts his mother’s opinion more than his own, then it’s even more important for you to think about it. Especially, if he has a very difficult sister. Because, you can’t be sure if you are likely to fall deeply in love with this person, or even, go into marriage with him. Avoid being overwhelmed by your love and telling yourself that the marriage will be exhausting later.
His attitude toward you
After a few times together, does he have feelings for you Whether or not there is a heartbeat. This is important. Even if he doesn’t have a heartbeat, he should at least have some good feelings for you. If he doesn’t feel anything for you, then, even if you like him again, I would advise you to let go. The reason for this is that you will either end up as a “playful” woman, or you will not get the emotions you want.
No bad habits you can’t accept
For example. You don’t like alcoholics, but he likes to drink; you don’t like gamblers, but his favorite place is the mahjong parlor; you don’t like how, but he prefers to have this characteristic. Then, you should not go and try to develop with him. Because, there is no way he can change that for you.
Willing to think about you
Being around you on the first date A man who has no qualms about smoking should be PASSed. He should at least ask for your permission. Of course, after a few dates is a different story. This means that he does not respect you and is not willing to look out for you. A man who is willing to show you the door before getting into a cab, a man who helps you find a seat first, a man who goes out and pushes the door for you, are more worthy of your consideration. It’s not because they’re more gentlemanly, it’s because: they’re thinking about you.
Respect for your opinion
If a man is blind to your opinion, then he opinion, then, he will not respect you as a person either. For example, you say you want to go eat fried rice in the evening, but, instead, he takes you directly to a noodle shop and tells you that the noodles here are delicious. Then, such a man is not worthy of your deep friendship. Some women are interesting, they will think that it’s nice to have a man who can do it for them. But I would say that a man who doesn’t respect your opinion won’t respect you later on in your relationship either.
Respect for women
A man who tells a yellow joke in front of you on the first date should be passed over.
A man who tells yellow jokes in front of you on the first date should be PASSED; a man who talks dirty in front of you on the first date should be PASSED; a man who talks about men and women with you on the first date should be PASSED; a man who takes you to unhealthy movies or exaggerated thrillers on the first date should be PASSED; a man who takes you to places where men gather on the first date should be PASSED.
You’ll see people over time
It takes a long, long time to really get to know someone. A very long process. Some people may not even get to know each other after ten years of marriage. If, at first, he gives you a good impression and, shows a good feeling for you. Then, you can try to start with him. But, women in the first time into a relationship, must pay attention to always observe the man around. Observe his every move. For example, his attitude towards people; attitude towards relationships; attitude towards family members; the way to deal with stress and difficulties. This is very important. It determines whether he can be a good husband or not.
What are the most taboo behaviors for girls in a relationship with a guy?
Unfaithful
This, needless to say, is a very taboo point The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Disrespectful to each other’s parents
Relationship sooner or later with each other’s The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Randomly looking through personal items
A boy in a relationship should respect the privacy of a girl. The girl’s privacy, even if it is a relationship between a man and a woman can not just go through the girl’s bag, cell phone and other things. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. This is a great way to get the most out of your life.
Suspicious by nature
A guy in a relationship with a girl he loves should give his all. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and also to provide them with the best possible service. This will only make the girl will produce a depressed mood and will easily choose to escape or leave.
Make a fool of yourself
Never be a macho guy The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to do, and that you have a good idea of what you want to do.
So what are the behaviors that will make a girl’s heart flutter?
Open the door for her as a gentleman
American psychologist Diana Dr. Kirschner says that a woman is definitely capable of opening the door herself, and when she acts hesitant, she is actually expecting gentlemanly behavior from a man.
Hug her when she’s frustrated
Women appreciate a man who is sensitive and attentive. The man who is attentive. When they are upset or frustrated, give them a big hug or hand them a tissue.
Women are most attracted to men who wear red
Psychological research It has been found that women subconsciously prefer “red men”. Red makes men appear more powerful, more attractive, and more arousing to women. Wear a red T-shirt on a date.
Correct your mistakes and apologize
Dr. Kirschner says that Women like to see men grow and mature, and like men who are thoughtful and quick-thinking. When a man realizes his mistakes and is honest about correcting them, women are naturally moved.
Be a good listener when she’s troubled
When troubled Women need a man’s ear, not advice. Dr. Kirschner says men are always problem solvers, but for women, it’s best if men listen carefully and help deepen their relationship.
Shirts as pajamas
With your boyfriend’s big shirt on. It may seem comical to look at. But in fact, the husband’s shirt is like a “love magnet”, wearing it will make women move. Research has found that the smell of men’s sweat has a “relaxing effect” on women.
Full foreplay during sex
When it comes to sex, men love to go The “fast lane”, women like the “slow lane”. Dr. Kirschner said that women are relatively slow to start sex and need longer foreplay such as talking and caressing before committing to passion.
Look into her eyes
Eyes are the windows to the soul. A woman prefers a man to look into her eyes during conversation or sex, and eye contact and eyebrow-to-eye communication are more helpful in enhancing a couple’s relationship.
Men take the initiative to protect themselves sexually
Dr. Kirschner said women appreciate that men are more secure because they take the initiative to be sexually protective and see it as an act of concern to protect both partners.