Agen asked me to go to a big stall for something to eat and drink, saying he was really aggravated and needed to vent.
At the time, I thought, maybe he had a fight with his girlfriend and it was no big deal.
Before his butt was even warmed up, he angrily said,
“I’ve been green and split up. Looking at a very simple girl, I really didn’t expect it. I was counted by someone else.”
I asked, “Your girlfriend cheated on you.
Ahara said:
She often goes out with her girlfriends at night, I can’t talk more and ask more questions, or I’ll just get mad and make a scene.
Just a while ago, my car was taken by her again, so I went to transfer the car’s car recorder and said I was going out with my bestie. I found her getting into the car with a guy and it was a big man’s voice in the car. Does she really think I’m stupid?
So how do guys usually find out their girlfriends are cheating on them?
This time Xiaoan Studio interviewed 30 guys who had similar experiences. Let’s see what they have to say.
Anonymous 22-year-old junior in Shanghai
My girlfriend is a very beautiful girl. I just chased her for about six months before she agreed to be with me.
So I cherished her and spoiled her as much as I could.
Then I found out she had a problem, but I asked her out to see her a lot and she said there was a problem.
You say it may be a coincidence that something happens once or twice, but it doesn’t make sense to do it all the time.
On one occasion at noon, I purposely called her down to the dorm building and asked her to go to the cafeteria for lunch. She said she had a date with her roommate sisters to go out to eat and asked me to fix it myself.
So I hid under a big tree and waited for her to come downstairs to see if she was really with her sister. In fact, it was a kind of inner peace.
And she came down alone, then smiled and sat on the bike of a man who, to be honest, was taller and more handsome than me.
Then I finally knew why she always ran out of time, because all the time she gave me went to other men.
When we broke up, I didn’t expose her naked body, I just said:
Happy day to you. If you want to break up with another man in the future, don’t use cold violence. Men can be very painful.
Axi32-year-old programming coordinates Shenzhen
Women are scared of their boyfriends or husbands cheating on them, in fact, men are similar.
As long as there is no IQ problem, he can’t find any clues unless the person has a very big heart.
There are underlying reasons for unexplained changes and inexplicable detachment.
Take my ex-girlfriend as an example.
When I was with her before, I wasn’t saying how much love I had, but I was living happily.
But suddenly there was a moment when I could clearly feel the change in her.
Her phone was snapped in front of me. Many times when she answered the phone, instead of looking at the phone screen first, she looked at me first. After answering the phone, she would hardly speak in front of me.
Then one time, she forgot her phone at home. That day, I received a call from a man. Just after saying hello, the phone hung up. I initiated the call and hung up straight away. My gut alerted me that there was something wrong in all probability.
When she came back for her phone, I said I got a call from a guy and I could sense she was nervous. She asked me what he said to you.
I said to her with a tense and serious face, “What do you think?”
At last she told me what happened, and we broke up that day.
Ajay is 24 years old anesthesiologist coordinates Guangzhou
Every time I mention this, I feel funny and sad.
Funny, all kinds of evidence that she cheated on me. I would rather cheat on myself. The sad thing is that I trusted her so much, but in return she trampled on me.
When I paid her in secret, I found out she bought several sets of sexy lingerie.
At the time, I wondered how she had changed her gender. Even though she suddenly looked a little strange, she still trusted her.
Think about it, are people still allowed to be flexible? It’s not bad, at least we’d like it.
But then I snapped with her a lot less often. Every time I looked reluctant, she stopped wearing the lingerie I bought earlier.
Isn’t that a hell of a thing? She’s not showing it to her boyfriend for herself? Plus, she’s never bought erotic lingerie before!
Then I put a location system in her phone and I knew exactly where she was going.
Finally went to a hotel and the location didn’t change overnight. The next day I asked her where she had gone and she said she was home.
Well, at home, and then I asked her to take out her phone and look at it. She also had a big fight with me, saying I was shameless, locating her and stalking her.
Now that I think about it, I’m such an idiot. It’s disgusting to think about it with your own money.
Anonymous 34-year-old architectural design coordinates in Beijing
I always think two people should trust each other when they are together, so I trust her unconditionally.
We are in a long-distance relationship and it’s not easy.
But it turns out that when you want to trust someone unconditionally, you have to be ready to be hurt.
I have a clear conscience. I’ve been good enough for her. I’ll give her whatever she wants.
Maybe she thinks straight guys are the kind of guys who don’t care about a lot of things. I’m straight, but not stupid.
As for how I found out she was cheating on me.
For a while, I was always on the phone when I called her. Half an hour later, I was still on the phone. Half an hour later, I was calling again.
Every time I thought about it I was probably on the phone with a close friend or her family and she would call me when I was done.
At one time, it was the same way. She twittered back to me directly after the call. She just called her best friend. I’m trying to sleep.
It was hard to feel that way. I know her best friend too, so I called her directly.
Her best friend went to take a shower and my call was answered by her best friend’s boyfriend saying they had just been watching a movie and hadn’t spoken to anyone.
This obviously wasn’t said beforehand, so consider me a monkey!
Anonymous 29-year-old criminal police officer coordinates Nanjing
Girlfriend knows I’m a cop, so I still have some anti-surveillance skills.
But she forgot that there is still a gap between her non-professional background and my serious study of this profession, otherwise I would have gone to work in college for nothing.
Sometimes when I think about it, she’s pretty silly too. Is she too confident in herself or does she think I’m too stupid?
Although we don’t live together, I know her very well because I go to her house often.
When I went to her house that day, I saw that the slippers I used to wear were a little worn and a little dirty. They weren’t before I left, they were washed before I left.
This is proof enough that I didn’t leave this behind, so who could it be?
Girlfriend, she doesn’t usually touch my shoes. At this point, I was already a little apprehensive.
When I entered the bedroom it was as clean as before, the same layout as before. However, I found a box of a certain brand of condoms somewhere in her house, but I never liked to use that brand.
I don’t use them. Who could it be? The answer was obvious!
Then I caught her cheating on me on the spot and broke up.
Adi 32-year-old store owner coordinates Chongqing
I am actually a very attentive person, is what changes in life, I can certainly notice.
Not to mention my own girlfriend.
We’ve been together for four or five years. I was going to propose to her next month.
This year, she got a marriage license, had a reception and went on a honeymoon, but it was a pro-break.
I have been in love with her for so long, and she always uses the same brand of perfume.
I said before to buy her another brand and she said she was not used to others.
But before that she suddenly changed the brand of perfume and stopped using the one she had been using for so many years.
Was she irritated by something? It feels weird!
But she smiled and laughed every day as if she had something very happy.
At the time I tried to make out with her, she seemed a little resistant and inhibited, and I thought she should have another dog outside.
Turned out someone paid to check it out and it was true, so it was a decisive split.
Not a summary of the summary
In fact, regardless of the gender, if you really do not love, no more feelings, get together, break up the heart is good. After all, they are already happy together. Why must we let the chicken fly the chicken fly the egg to be happy?
Respect each other. Is it really that hard to do after a breakup?
Sanso in “Dear Sanso” – wrote this
A marriage that can’t stand the test will eventually go off the rails!
In fact, a relationship that can’t stand the test can’t even enter the threshold of marriage, and those who want to leave will always leave, just in different ways!
So I also advise a man or woman who has cheated or is about to cheat:
You can hurt the people who love you and trust you. You can leave if you don’t love them, but please don’t hurt someone who loves you that much!