From girls to women, we gain something, and of course we lose something. But there are ten things that stay with us that no one can take away. Have you learned them, too?
1. Some people and some things really aren’t worth your energy and effort
Don’t take the best of yourself and get taken advantage of by the worst of him
Many things, when you grow up, you suddenly understand. When you are young, for a lost love, the pillow wet for several nights, crying at night hoarse, constantly blaming themselves for where they did not do well, how good it would be if they had a do-over. Then you walked through one lost love after another, for their own healing, dressing wounds, dry tears, get up, also grew up. You gradually understand that not their own bad, perhaps not his bad, just two people really do not fit. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In this world, we don’t really have many days, and it’s good to spend our precious time really on people who are worth it and things that are worth it.
2. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger
Remember Remember when you were in your early 20s? A bit green, a bit reckless, a bit wobbly, for some small things on the eyes of the red you. You have made some choices, some of which look back on very well now, and some of which look back on very poorly now. Life doesn’t always go smoothly, and who doesn’t stumble a few times? But those walks, those falls, those nights, the ones that didn’t kill you, always make you stronger.
Whatdoesn’tkillyoumakeyoustronger, do you remember yourself back then too?
3. Suddenly you realize that aging is an incredibly graceful process
After 20, 30, 40, each with their own rhythm from girl to woman, the cut realized that life is an infinitely extended road. The first time you fall in love, the first time you wore lipstick and eyeliner, the first wrinkles at the end of your eyes, the first time you got pregnant, the first time you watched your child run to the bus 。。。。 The first time I heard “old” I wanted to roll my eyes, but now you are gracefully enjoying the aging process and you really like yourself at every stage.
Look at what are the signs of a woman’s maturity, what are the signs of a woman’s maturity!
Signs of a woman’s maturity I: Marriage as a prerequisite to fall in loveAfter a woman matures, especially after a woman’s view of love matures, they will begin to fall in love with the purpose of marriage The first thing you need to do is to get married, but the premise is always that you love him. A mature woman will be in a responsible mood to fall in love, she will also be more rational view of love, which is also respect for both sides. It’s a mature approach to relationships and marriage for adults to convey this mood to him, to make him understand what you think, and to make him realize that he should take your relationship seriously.
Sign of a woman’s maturity #2: No longer believing in “forever” Although eternal love will definitely exist, it can only be achieved after settling down. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The best thing is to keep life going smoothly. The most important thing is that you can’t be in love forever, and when it matures, love becomes the simplest kind of mutual dependence.
Sign of a mature woman #3: His appearance is no longer as important as a mature woman choosing the man she loves is more important on the inside than the man’s appearance. The sign of a mature woman is that the choice of her significant other is no longer just about appearance, but about the person’s education, character, etc. Once a teenager you may be a little nymphomaniac, but after maturity, you need to realize that the day is to live realistically, and appearance is just a skin.
Signs of Maturity in Women IV: Try not to argue, and solve problems rationally and calmly Arguing is a double-edged sword that can hurt feelings, but it can also deepen the bond between two people. If you can think carefully before quarrelling, avoid some unnecessary words, avoid head-on conflicts, and leave each other a step down. You know that some things said during a fight can’t be made up for long afterwards, so stay calm and rational and make each other more sincere.