After ten years of marriage, many housewives worry that they are aging down a little bit, and the love with their significant other is gradually entering a fatigue period, when he may no longer compliment you frequently on your beauty, no longer will he send you pink bottles of perfume, and the roses have disappeared. What can I do to attract him again? If he is no longer paying much attention to you, then you may need some changes.
Program #1: The Food Planner
Most women think The majority of women think that cooking and washing clothes every day is what makes them a virtuous woman, and naturally they will be recognized by men. In fact, this idea is wrong. 20-year-old women occasionally appear in front of the pot, playing the role of charming witch is very attractive to men. The fact is that if a woman in her thirties is always around the pot, she can easily be seen as a full-time housewife.
Detergents can make your hands rough, and fumes can accelerate the aging of your facial skin, all of which should be taken very seriously and not ignored. Maybe you think your cooking level is very high, cooking very good; you also think you wash dishes very clean, kitchen wiped spotless. However, men’s thinking is very intuitive, you do the dish again, no outside restaurants do delicious; bowl washed clean, and he did not bring a magnifying glass to see, do not know that you pay for this hardship. If you let him see you at the end of each day at the end of the day in front of the pot, if you then aptly issue a few complaints, it will mean that you are no longer the woman he appreciates.
So the smart housewife has to persuade her husband to get in the kitchen often, no matter how badly he cooks, you have to praise him and attach a fond kiss, so that he can gradually develop a sense of accomplishment and willingly get in the kitchen for you.
And your charm must be reflected more in the preparation before the meal. You can make the dining atmosphere romantic, and then put on gorgeous or glamorous clothes to make him unforgettable dining this moment, and even start thinking about it while eating. Although a couple of ten years, to create such an atmosphere often.
Program #2: Social Activist
Some women love to watch Korean TV dramas, so they learn from Korean women who used to stay at home on weekends. But Korean women don’t all stay at home to raise their children, they tend to stay at home when they get older.
When a man comes home after a long day and sees you watching TV, if you send him a bitter face, it’s a perfect match and it’s hard not to hate you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Thirty is not the end of a woman’s social activities, but the beginning. 30 has the ability to interact with people and a mature charm that allows a 30-year-old woman to have more friends.
Women in their 30s have the time and money to be more autonomous, more uninhibited, and to have more “nutritional oils” to infuse their soul: tea, yoga, music, and international standard dancing. These are all activities that a 30-year-old woman should engage in.
When you make tea in front of him, when you play the occasional guitar, when you tango in front of him in a dance costume, when you stretch out in two yoga poses, how can he not be charmed by you in front of him?
During social events, you should also have two more male friends, knowing that marriage is also subject to the “law of the jungle”. When the wolf appears, the deer keeps running to keep alive. So, it is better to add two “good wolves” to your marriage in time.
Program #3: Financial Advisor
“Why didn’t you pay home this month’s salary?” “Say, what’s with the $2,000 in the shoebox?” When you ask questions like that, how can you not annoy the man in front of you?
You know full well that you couldn’t bear to buy makeup and bought him a tie. You couldn’t bear to buy fruit but bought him a beer. You know better than to spend all this money you are saving with the intention of buying him a car. But if you don’t tell him, he won’t know, he will just think that you know how to ask him for money and that you only like money. This is not good, when you are confronted by money, you are no longer the lover, but his enemy. After the confrontation over money, your marriage is a prison.
Save money, but don’t lose your charm by saving money. The right amount of money should always be spent, such as weekend excursions, watching movies, buying household gadgets in your daily life, and occasionally going to coffee houses and bars with him for a small sit-down, all of which can improve the quality of life and increase your charm index.
When a smart woman pays for a man, she must let him know, for example, when you buy clothes with him, you must emphasize that you chose the clothes and you have a good eye; when we eat together, we must ask each other if he likes the food you choose. When we eat together, make sure to ask each other if he likes the food you choose. Even when you ask him for this month’s salary, you have to politely express: “Honey, let’s both be tight this month in order to save money for a private car.”
When he hands you his paycheck, you can reward him with a trip to the movies or buy him a little car model, of course, on your treat, and let him pay for it.
Program #4: “Columnist”
In some families, the husband will not be very happy with his wife’s character. This time some women will change themselves to suit their husbands’ ideas. Some husbands feel that their wives are always quiet every day, as the wife would have liked to quietly read a book when reluctantly turned into a noisy bird, but also from time to time learn to do Izumi-like, the heart of the tired only they know. Some husbands want their wives to have a gentler disposition, so they change from moving like a rabbit to being as quiet as water, and some even go so far as to follow the example of the East.
But you may not have thought that there will come a time when you can’t satisfy his desires, and that’s when the family war will break out. Too much change will also make men feel that you, the woman, have no position, and even make him feel that you are vulgar. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Program #5: Clothing Stylist
Glamorous clothes can increase a woman’s glamour quotient. can increase a woman’s glamour quotient. Changing clothes every day also gives a signal of sophistication in life.
Women in their 30s often buy clothes that are “versatile” and think it’s good to dress casually in everyday life. But that’s not true.
Dressing is like eating. You can’t stand to eat one kind of food every day, and one day you realize it’s not even cooked properly, and you’ll reject it completely. The first thing you need to do is to give him a visual cooking and “serve” it every day.
By dressing yourself regularly, you’re sending him positive signals about life, and who can’t be satisfied with a wife who loves life so much? In addition, appearing in a polished way often adds a lot of confidence to yourself, and the more confident a woman is the more beautiful she becomes, and that beauty will be there for him to see.
Program #6: Etiquette Consultant
There are of women in their twenties still have a touch of shyness, while in their thirties they become a complete woman, simply washing their faces on weekend mornings, with little elaborate grooming. It’s a bit much to say anything in front of your husband without holding back.
The famous Hong Kong movie star Ekin Cheng broke up with his girlfriend to make a new love because he came home one day and saw Maggie Shaw lying asleep on the sofa without removing her makeup and with a haggard face. The famous Taiwanese writer Li Ao and Taiwan’s number one beauty Hu Yin Meng divorced because Li Ao came home one day and saw Hu Yin Meng sitting on the toilet, in Li Ao’s words, grimacing and with an abominable face.
Perhaps many women would say that these two men are thin-skinned, but if Maggie Shao had removed her makeup and Hu Yin Meng had closed the door, the outcome might have been different, and at the very least the excuse would not have been left to the men.
Although married for ten years, women should show men that there is still “reserve”, and couples should also talk about etiquette, because men care more about the image of their wives. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Program #7: Amateur Singer
When the relationship tends to When the relationship gradually tends to be flat, it is good to occasionally regain the touch of the past. The sweet memories are really the fuel for the relationship.
When two people are at a standstill, as a wife you can remind your husband to go back in time and think about it, you can even ask him to talk about it at a place where we used to date. Time has changed things rather than getting tired of each other. At this time, the little conflicts in life can be easily resolved.
Singing out loud is a great way to regulate not only your relationship but also your mood.