Why is the divorce rate for young couples in the post-80s so high? Let’s take a look at what exactly is causing post-80s marriages to fall apart.
1. Disputes over household chores
When it comes to household chores, the causes of disputes are basically trivial family matters. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem of the problem. Remember, more hands can also bring us joy. Household chores, I advocate who is free to do who. Both free, to physical chores men undertake, some light women do. The woman should respect the woman, the man should properly listen to the woman’s instructions, the woman should not scold the man for not doing his chores, after all, housework is not a man’s specialty. The actual fact is that you can find out more about each other.
2. Fade due to the woman’s pregnancy
When the woman is pregnant, sometimes men are prone to emptiness, home does not care, only care about their own pleasure. Such as playing mahjong and old socializing. Do not understand the hardships of a woman’s pregnancy. Especially when some pregnant women go back to live in their mother’s house, individual men feel good free and relaxed themselves. Men, don’t forget the responsibility in your own heart, and more importantly, shoulder the burden of preparing to be a father!
3. Conflicts due to parental intervention
Some newlyweds, once they have been aggrieved, which is supposed to be something trivial, accuse their parents of not being each other, while some elders, regardless of who is right and who is wrong, are all about pampering their children. And count each other! The couple should not always accuse each other in front of their parents of not being. At the same time as elders, all should treat each other as their own children, fair treatment, do not be biased.
4. Aggravation due to domestic violence
Domestic violence is not only violence between husband and wife, but also domestic violence from children to elders and parents to children! Against domestic violence! The family should be a warm place away from violence, full of affection to support and care for each other, a safe harbor. Wife beating is not for gentlemen, only useless men will take women, children, the elderly out of anger. The woman also can not take the man as a sandbag, after all, the man is also a meat!
5. Indifference due to emotional problems
Some couples become strangers and don’t care about each other! Cold violence between couples is also immeasurably harmful to marriage. Love problems arise, be good at communication. Do not cold war. Find more reasons from themselves. Take a step back to the sea. The woman should be gentle and considerate, and the man should be tolerant and open-minded.
6. Friction due to child education
The arrival of a child breaks the original two-person world. Because of education or bringing up children, friction arises between couples. Whether it is a man or a woman, take the responsibility for the child. Remember that for children, stick to educate children, spoil children, are not desirable. Parents need to set a good example for their children! Couples should tolerate and trust each other.
7. Breakup due to one party having an affair
For one party to have an affair, the blow to the marriage is undoubtedly fatal. The world is a big place, temptation is everywhere, the so-called good man, good woman, is to see if you can resist temptation. Remember, it is not wrong to specialize in some. It is possible to have your own confidant of the opposite sex, but do it with a heart without shame!
8. Collision caused by taunting and insults
The conflict between the couple, dissatisfied with each other, or in the quarrel to provoke sensitive topics, or even mouth insulting words. Due to inappropriate words, it is easy to cause the other person to act in an extreme manner in a moment of loss of control. Respect each other, but also respect themselves. Remember, have a good conversation!
9. Disagreements over property money
Some couples dislike each other for making less money; buying items that are expensive; or buying things with crazy price reductions; losing money on speculation; or missing out on good opportunities to make money; or having their relatives borrow money ah, their other half is not happy, etc.. Blame each other! Money is a factor of marital happiness, but not the only factor. What makes people happy is character, not money. Couples need to talk more, encourage more, and give loving comfort.
10. Resistance due to emotional disorders
Most young couples nowadays are only children and are more capricious. They are prone to self-centeredness, forbearance in marriage, and tolerance is not enough. So the conflict intensifies when they refuse to humble each other, and the conflict intensifies after a hasty divorce! Long years said, once the conflict between the couple, the two should work together to find the root cause, do not let the conflict intensify. Do not be childish, endure a moment of peace and quiet! For marriage, some people feel that marriage is the continuation of the sweetness of love; while some people feel that marriage is the grave of love. At the same time, some people treat marriage as the most solemn thing in the world, while some people regard it as a child’s play. Remember, marriage needs to be managed with the hearts and minds of both men and women, so that it can go farther!