The other evening, the buddy and his girlfriend over a small matter from a discussion to an argument to break up, brushed off his girlfriend left home, the buddy dead set to go to her. It is a little bit funny to watch, but when you think about it, your buddy’s patience seems to have reached its limit.
Hot period women can not step into the forbidden zone
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See people in couples’ clothes out on the street, with photos of their girlfriends or wives on their phone screens, and a lot of love show and show. The first thing you need to do is to think about your own one, how can you be so insensitive? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. Women, love and show are two different things, but also with your man’s character, he likes of course good, do not like the words do not force, in fact, the woman can always be a young girl, but men do not necessarily like the young man play fancy. He does not want to be small family gas, do not want to be children say uncle also romantic. If you have to brand to love each other, then brand it on his body.
No Zone 2: Forbid him to smoke or drink
He smokes and drinks. The home is often cluttered with smoke and ash from his computer keyboard, and the shirts he changes often smell of smoke and alcohol. You complain about second-hand smoke, often worrying about his drunk driving, and eventually one day, can not stand, play the wife of the strict function, smoking and drinking after don’t want to kiss me don’t want to touch me. This is a woman often guilty of new common problem, in fact, it is not necessary, he smoked and drank as you do beauty eating nutrients, is the spiritual food in life. Don’t try to kiss me don’t try to touch me? You want to push him into the arms of another woman? Instead of banning him, why not start by caring for him and let him smoke less and drink less, while keeping some snacks at home to quit smoking and relieve alcohol.
No-go zone 3: I love you all the time
These three words are a sure thing for A woman is a sure thing, and it would be truly beautiful to have I love you on her lips. But the big man is focused on the sense of occasion, okay, men would rather use action to prove the weight of these three words. But the woman is not relenting in training him to say “I love you”. A smart woman will not do this, in fact, love is soaked in action, eyes, tone of voice, not necessarily “I love you” is the best expression. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
No. 4: Force him to swear
You don’t believe him. Move rut like to make him make a poisonous oath: “You swear you only love me, you swear you cut off your relationship with your ex-girlfriend, you swear ……” such an oath has meaning? Don’t think that after the thunder and lightning vows, men will not dare to do anything. The first thing you need to do is to build trust, and if you’re screaming and swearing like a grouch, he’ll be absolutely annoyed with you, and even if you do, that vow is too cheap.
No. 5: Forcing him to be your “pet”
None of your buddies are good, that’s what you give his friends. As long as your sister group has activities, you will take him out like a pet! In fact, his personality is a little boring, will not mahjong and will not Karaoke, with your group of friends out equal to live suffer. In fact, give each other a space, love him, try to accept his friends. If, for example, he doesn’t like your girlfriends as much as you don’t like his brothers, then how would you feel about it? Don’t treat men as vases or as pets, piss him off rather than for the jade or bite you, it’s enough to hurt you.
No Zone 6: Take out love interest #1, just shut down his computer or delete the game
You are busy doing housework after work every day, but that husband just sits in front of the computer and fights his game, not even hugging and kissing to say that baby has worked hard. You are angry with your arms crossed, regardless of computer errors directly shut down the power, so he “abandoned”. Or, simply delete all the game program. But dear woman, the man playing the game is a child, the great pressure of modern life, your he may be in the game in the battle to experience the long-lost joy, no game, he is a child is taken away from the beloved toys, you can not bear? If you force him to discontinue this pleasure, he will definitely be angry with you inside.
Finding out the lies of men in love
< strong>1. When we graduate, we’ll get married
Purpose: If you can’t give it for now, make up for it with your vows
No doubt this is one of the most common lies told by post-80s men in their campus days – “I’ll marry you after graduation.” As a result, either they cross the river before they graduate, or they get to graduation and go their separate ways because of work and family.
Men, it’s always easy to overestimate their own strengths, so much so that they often don’t consider the promises they’ve made to count as lies. The reason is that they overestimate their own sense of responsibility and overestimate the responsibility they can take on: they can be the ones who are in love on campus; but when it comes to starting a family, they will unconsciously back off.
Reality is harsh, and so is love. There is nothing wrong with men loving to talk and women loving to listen; but men must not talk easily, and women must not get lost easily.
2. First love? I have long forgotten
Purpose: most care about first love do not want to be violated
No do not care about each other Women who have a past. Past feelings for men are a lifelong mystery to women.
But when a man is confronted with these questions, it’s really not easy to answer. If you say some details, she will certainly continue to dwell on it, but affect the feelings; if you use lies to perfume, you have to use more lies to complete. So, smart men usually block out all the questions with this lie.
After all, the past is something that he can’t get rid of emotionally. So, women also try to learn to tolerate; if they don’t bring it up, he’s afraid he’s long forgotten.
3. How could I lie to you
Purpose: to gain each other’s trust The best way to get rid of your lover’s doubts
In the course of a relationship between a man and a woman, there is no shortage of suspicion between men and women because they do not know their current situation very well. The best way for a woman to remove her doubts is also this “love story”.
Men take advantage of a woman’s natural tendency to be more easily moved by sympathy, and throw it out at their discretion, considering the level of relationship they are currently in. The firmer the relationship, the easier it is to succeed; conversely, the easier it is to be recognized.
While sometimes, this kind of lie can easily work, men should still try to say it sparingly without putting me in the situation. Otherwise, if you are caught out, you will make up for it with more lies; and some, there is no going to make up for it.
4. Trust me, you’re the best girl I’ve ever seen
Purpose: To eliminate suspicion and convince her that she’s the one
“How do you know this is the one she’s your favorite until you get to the next one?” Perhaps that statement was the powerful blow that demolished that lie.
People say, “It’s easy to find a woman who doesn’t eat meat; it’s too hard to find a woman who’s not jealous.” Women, always want to be the only one in the heart of the man. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, as long as love is good, why do you need to pursue the most love? The most love, sometimes, does not mean being able to use all your strength, and if I were a woman, I would never be cold to this lie.