Dating is a necessary process for men and women to move towards love and marriage. In psychology, we know that the first cause effect is important, or first impressions. So the first date often determines the tone and pulse of your relationship.
First, learn some basic guidelines!
No need to tiktok. Leave your phone in the car and enjoy dinner and the chance to be real face-to-face, in the swaying candlelight, not in a screen.
Let the babysitter work. Once, my husband and I happened to get home before the kids went to bed. We spent the entire hour confiscating those golf club supplies, looking around for the glass bottle crumbs they had broken, and the whole night was a mess.
The relationship should not be full of fireworks. “I need you to clean the sewers!” A command that is a real mood killer. Know the proper tactful expressions in your relationship – that way the relationship will last.
Don’t expect perfection. After our twins were born, our first date night was actually pretty wretched. We had a flat tire, waited for the rescue truck in anxiety and exhaustion, wolfed down a simple dinner, and got damp from sweating. Romantic? Not at all, unless you have a penchant for sitting in the cab of a rescue truck and counting. But we still laughed – and sometimes the chaos itself can be fun.
Ignite the romance! Wow, 10 great tips for getting that passionate chemistry going –
1. Suburban drive some beer teasing bets = the sporty version of foreplay.
2. Veggies, steak and prawns sign up for a two-hour grilling class = mastering new skills together. Remember to check out the local culinary masters for class locations and class schedules to find the ones you’re both interested in attending.
3. A deck of cards a hot night stripping rules = a new interpretation of “poker played the new way.
4. Shakespeare in the park – bossy teacher = romance inspired by language like, “Where there is you, there is the world; where there is not you, it is barren.” Before going to a clean and nice date park, remember to shower well and put on a nice smelling mosquito repellent! The first thing you need to do is to get in front of the mosquitoes and then shout “there are mosquitoes”, which is too bad.
5. Spacious backseats drive-in movies = old-fashioned passionate kissing. Go to the almighty Baidu and search for retro theaters with moody homes.
6. A pair of comfy heels a bottle of your favorite sparkling wine salsa lessons on YouTube = a full night of raucous erotic dancing.
7. A craving for grilled cheese, or dumplings, or BBQ …… a cart food stand with a seat and people and beer = a delicious menu. At home, VW’s mobile client is a good choice; when traveling abroad, download the app “RoamingHunger” to your phone to see the best street food in your city.
8. Gorgeous sunsets those fleeting silhouettes of him and you falling in love = his heart pounding and his heart racing. Try to find the nearest moody trail to you beforehand to save yourself a detour.
9. Hot dogs basketball/football game/other game of your favorite sport = a night of passion. No matter how good the ball is, players playing for the love of the sport will make you feel a fervent love of life.
10. Binoculars your city’s landscape area meteor shower = relax and gaze at the stars like you’ve never done it before. don’t miss the Perseid meteor shower late night to dawn on Aug. 12 and 13.
5 great ideas from loving couples!
“At sunset, we took our inflatable dinghy to a creek near our home and lazily paddled and drifted for 30 minutes in the creek, enchanted by the gorgeous views. Accompanied by what little wine we had in the glass bottle, we had a perfect evening.” — Dan Appelm, M, 31, married 3 years
“Every summer, we go fly fishing together. It sounds mysterious, but I really just like to stand next to him in my waterproof boots and watch him fish.” –Gail Rezit, female, 48, married 7 years
“We go blueberry, strawberry and raspberry picking together. We take home almost 50 pounds of berries each time. We still have the berries we brought home last year stored in our big freezer, but still, this season’s picking was too good to pass up!” –Kelly W., female, 35, in a relationship for 7 years
“We walk to Rita’s ItalianIce smoothie store for our weekly date night. We met each other when Sarah was working there, so the place was special to us. Especially since things are inexpensive there and we get to enjoy both the beautiful weather and the fruits of each other’s work.” — Jason Morgenroth, M, 27, married 2 years
“We cooked a big table for our friends. After we ate, we cranked up the music, drank drinks – and shook the hula hoops! It was a fiesta.” — Erica Mercado, female, 31, married 1 year
Date your best, of course! Learn the trendiest outfit for a date with a celebrity
1. Cool Mom Tide Never Fails
Give your khakis a break for pants printed with animal prints, a comfy tee, and hot heels – it’s on trend and will have super high turnout. (Trust me, the men love it!)
Celebrities: Jay-Z and Beyonce
2. Understated can be equally eye-catching
A romantic top in silk with white slim-fit jeans exudes sexiness without even thinking about it, which is fascinating.
Stars: Eddie Spian and LeAnn Rimes
3. Playful girl, gentle and matchless
A uniquely patterned wool cardigan paired with a breezy skirt and pretty flat sandals is casual yet feminine and can go anywhere with you.
Stars: Diane Kruger and Joshua Jackson
4. The best movie to watch on a date!
Sometimes all you need in your life is a dark quiet mood, a really cool environment, his company, sexy sweet stories that put you in a good mood. The following 6 movies are worth seeing on a date, and they are all freshly released blockbusters this summer! If the mainstream movie theaters are not available, don’t forget to look for those little personalized theaters. It’s a fun way to live.
SEEKINGAFRIENDFORTHEENDOFTHEWORLD
What would you do if the world was about to end? Steve Carell’s dark comedy, which is about finding the flame of love before the world ends.
Pretty Friends (BELAMI)
Soft puffy beds and rippling, wonderful bodies send you into an emotional spiral of scheming people trying to climb up from the bottom of society, starring Robert Pattinson, shuttling through Parisian hotels and, in his own way, falling asleep.
ROCK OF AGES (ROCKOFAGES)
If ’80s rock music obsesses you, then you’ll love this powerhouse musical that convinces you that great movies for dating couples don’t always have a lingering musical number.
The Philadelphia Story (PEOPLELIKEUS)
Family drama isn’t all sexy, and this movie tells the story of a young man looking for love, and the sister he doesn’t know he has. You’ll adore your boyfriend even more for his simple simplicity.
HYSTERIA
Recovers the untold story of the invention of the world’s first electric female vibrator. Hugh Dancy plays a doctor concerned with the psychological satisfaction of women. Husbands, take notes.
DANCE THE WALTZ (TAKETHISWALTZ)
This relationship story about an affair may not seem like a good fit for a romantic date night, but do you remember that 2002 film, “The Infidelity Punishment”?The 2012 version is even more charming. Check it out and quietly revise your love vows.