In recent years, there have been more and more leftover men and women, and the holidays, which should be a happy reunion, are gradually becoming a burden for these singles. “Either in forced marriage, or being forced to marry.” During the holiday season, many singles changed their signature file to this phrase. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Leave-behind men and women: the five most fearful forced marriage questions asked at home on holidays:
1. Have you talked about girl/boyfriend yet?
2. When are you getting married?
3. When is your boyfriend/girlfriend coming back to visit?
4. When will you let me have grandchildren?
5. So-and-so girl/guy is nice, can I introduce you to her?
Marry or be forced to marry
These questions are loaded like bullets during the holiday family gathering. The problem is that the family is getting together during the holiday season, and it’s like a bullet that’s loaded and sweeping through the leftover men and women. Many people can’t resist this kind of pressure and decide on a lifelong event in a confused manner, while others find it hard to accept all this pressure and choose to go on a trip to avoid their families during the holidays.
Whether it’s blindly submitting to the will of the family and making impulsive decisions that they may regret for the rest of their lives, or acting like ostriches to avoid the “enthusiasm” of distant relatives, parents are either in a hurry or forced to marry out of comparison. The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list.
You can’t afford to be forced into marriage
Recently, people have been posting their The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. …… holiday, so many young people issued a “every festive season is forced to marry” lament. This year’s National Day holiday has seven days, which allows singles not only escape the family forced marriage, but also escape the flirtation and self-deprecation of netizens, many people’s holiday has become a “be hyped festival. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market.
Case 1: “The questions they ask make me devastated.” Mr. Li is 26 years old, hometown Linyi, just experienced a long and tangled holiday. He felt helpless, relatives in his hometown first asked the age, then naturally cut to ask the status quo, not less than three sentences are bound to ask the marriage situation, after which is to give advice, “logic is very invincible, they sometimes a ‘why’, they forced me into the dead end of the male when married, how I answer are making me very It’s hard.”
Case 2: 27-year-old Ms. Fu doesn’t have a boyfriend, and all her relatives are urging her to go on a blind date every day, “I can’t even sleep at night, calling and texting me. This makes her feel “really can’t live”. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of services and services to the public.
Case 3: While most leftover men and women encounter verbal “forced marriage,” relatives of unmarried men and women take direct action. 27-year-old Mr. Wang, who has a girlfriend, said, “At home, relatives meet to discuss the issue. “At home, relatives must ask the words ‘when to get married’.” Mr. Wang said that the most anxious in this matter is his grandparents, the two old people look forward to the early completion of the grandson, hold the grandson sooner, but also made a special rush to buy dates, let him bring his girlfriend. This makes Mr. Wang laugh and cry, in fact, he has a plan for this, the new year, he intends to buy a house first, and then receive a marriage license.
In the face of forced marriage, the editorial advice
1, pretend to be crazy and buy stupid. Pretend to be deaf and dumb.
2. Let your parents know about you and tell them what you think and what your goals are right now.
3. Be cautious about getting married and remind your parents of the risks of forced marriage.
4. Forget the sad past and have faith in the future, there will always be someone there who loves you.
5. Be active in a larger social circle and find a lover that fits you.
Editor’s Conclusion
During the holidays, forced marriages are staged one after another, and as children, not without helplessness and distress. However, it is important to pay attention to the attitude of dialogue with parents. As parents, do not be too blind, climbing, and ultimately because of blindness and climbing and the loss of their children’s happiness, that is more than worth the loss, to believe and understand the decision made by their children. In this way, I believe that the children will be more receptive to the care of their parents.